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Discussion Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
OP: July 06, 2011, 06:42:11 AM
This was LearningIamok's  idea. I thought it might bring some humor to everyone.

Mine bought so far.

A motorized bike
A beat up power boat
And is now buying a surfboard ;D He turns 65 in a few months...but going on 16 ;D
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#1: July 06, 2011, 06:52:24 AM
LMAO!! wwtd...

That is funny!!! a surfboard??  hehehehe ;)

The only thing that my H did that was dumb, he financed a $20,000 Cadillac...for Ow.

Now he is stuck with a combined payment and Ins. of $650 a month... >:(

right after BD...he talked about taking "dance lessons" LOL!
and he bought...weird stuff..

like foam airplane toys and remote control helicopters...he is 43 going on 13..:)

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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#2: July 06, 2011, 07:19:18 AM
Well, let's see. My ex hubby did the following (within 6-8 months):

1). Traded his 2006 vehicle for a 2010 vehicle
2). Bought a used sports car
3). Bought OW a brand new car (later traded for a truck for himself)
4). Purchased two motorcycles
5). Bought all kinds of leather motorcycle gear
6). Talked about taking flying lessons (never did)
7). Bought a bicycle (no knowledge that he's ever ridden it)

Oh, one more thing..........my ex just closed on a house without a job!
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#3: July 06, 2011, 07:52:53 AM
Mine:

traded in old car for new "sporty" car
LOTS of new clothes (a shiney silver/grey rainjacket that tops the list of most tasteless items I have ever seen him wear, but I am sure it cost a packet)
whole new wardrobe for my little girl (went shopping with OW as if they are playing dress-up with a doll) very little for my son, who is older (not so cute? :o) and so doesn't get his own wardrobe of clothes at daddy's house.


I do not talk to him, so other than that i really have no idea what else he spends his money on. Before BD he was constantly downloading the latest pop music onto his ipod, buying CD's and DVD's, because (and I quote) "I just love the ENERGY of teenagers, they are so cool".

Well, maybe if they ARE in fact teenagers. Not so sure about 36 year old men masquerading as teenagers; are they cool? Lets ask some teenagers..... :P
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#4: July 06, 2011, 07:56:46 AM
LIW:

Hulla hoop.......PRICELESS!

Mine bought a $650 bicycle.....he has had his ass on it twice.
60 in LED tv
And 3 months before BD....traded his 350z. For a new BMW.

Booked a 2500 trip to Mexico for July8-16....... Had me cancel it and loose 300....had me cancel it last Thursday....then Last night rebook it again to go for my birthday.  We leave Friday.....

CRAZY.....WACKED out stuff!!!
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#5: July 06, 2011, 08:03:40 AM
In my opinion, right now, the hula hoop and surfboard tops the list!
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#6: July 06, 2011, 08:06:19 AM
I agree LMM.....gotta love the hula hoop!!

wonder what in the world he was thinking?? man to be inside the MLC brain...LOL!!
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#7: July 06, 2011, 08:11:37 AM
WWTD,

I'm glad you got this going.LOL  The Hula Hoop is the most mentally challenged purchase so far.  Mine was going to rent to own a condo in case he decided to come back.  He spent 250K buying one, it just fell in his lap, fully furnished it, big screen tv (but he only has basic cable, boo hoo) and says he can't afford the electricity to run the air and now can't afford to replace worn out shirts.  Well Moron, what did you think was going to happen?
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#8: July 06, 2011, 09:08:26 AM
LIW, My best friend just came back from a cruise. She said one of the performers could spin 50 Hula Hoops at a time.  Maybe he's looking for a career in the cruise industry. ;D
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Re: Stupid stuff our MLCers buy
#9: July 06, 2011, 09:36:41 AM
  I'm lucky mine is very FRUGAL and tired and depressed.  He walks around like Clint Eastwood with a bug up his ass. A scared and confused Clint Eastwood. He goes to Salvation Army and buys a Mr Coffee Pot for 3 dollars and spends the next 10 years reminding me how smart he is to buy things at a cheap price.  ::) ::)
 Meanwhile  I can buy a really cool coffee pot with less than 1 hours pay from work and I'd rather work hard and have a couple of NICE COOL THINGS.
  I am hoping he doesn't get cash advances on his secret Visa card to pay THEIR rent. The stupid Bowser Train Wreck Suzzie. ::)
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