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What is your MLC'ers Birth Order

Oldest Child
20 (26%)
Middle Child
19 (24.7%)
Youngest Child
28 (36.4%)
Oldest Girl
1 (1.3%)
Oldest Boy
5 (6.5%)
Only Child
4 (5.2%)

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Discussion What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
OP: August 29, 2011, 06:50:25 AM
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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#1: August 29, 2011, 06:52:40 AM
Only child.
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A confirmed - 12/08
BD #2 - 06/09
Left Home 06/09
H filed - 06/11
H engaged - 07/11
Pregnancy announced - 07/11
D final - 04/12
Married OW - 05/13
Reconnecting - 02/14

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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#2: August 29, 2011, 06:54:17 AM
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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#3: August 29, 2011, 06:55:17 AM
Great thread Rebel...

I'm sure DGU will pop in here with some great articles on siblings :)

My H is the youngest, His eldest brother was killed in a car accident when my H  was 8 years old...
The middle brother is bipolar and manic depressive (homeless man now) multiple personality disorder
as well.


(does it matter that I am the youngest too) hehe
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H deceased 11/09/2015
D17
Married 16 yrs Together 25 yrs
BD 09/10
living with OW 12/10
OW moved out 03/11
H moved home 06/11
Affair ended 05/12 again and again and again
H Blocked xOW from contacting Him 10/12
Ended ALL contact with xOW Dec 26th 2012 (So I thought!) I filed for D June 10th 2013
Moved out.

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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#4: August 29, 2011, 06:57:39 AM
According to the book, it matters.
Kevin Leman says the best match is opposite ends of the spectrum.
Like me and Pumpkin :o
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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#5: August 29, 2011, 07:00:54 AM
I'm the youngest.
H is the middle....older brother (preferred by Narcissa - MIL), younger sister (preferred by FIL).

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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#6: August 29, 2011, 07:03:25 AM
I am the eldest of 5.  H is the youngest of 3.  I do think H's brother (middle child) has had a MLC and never really left replay.
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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#7: August 29, 2011, 07:10:02 AM
My H is the youngest of 9 in a very dysfunctional family with many issues
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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#8: August 29, 2011, 07:11:26 AM
Still Praying, are you older than your husband?
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Re: What is your MLC'ers Birth Order
#9: August 29, 2011, 07:14:26 AM
Quote from: Rebel Yell on August 29, 2011, 06:57:39 AM
According to the book, it matters.
Kevin Leman says the best match is opposite ends of the spectrum.
Like me and Pumpkin :o
Both my wife and I are eldest children of a family of 2 children.
Does that mean that the 28 years of blissful marriage didn't count?

Maybe I will have to read the book.
I'll put it on the list for after I get divorced. :) :) :)
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