Skip to main content

Author Topic: Off-Topic RCR should plan a convention...

L
  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 718
  • Gender: Female
Off-Topic RCR should plan a convention...
OP: September 11, 2011, 11:32:09 AM


I would help.  There should be a LBS convention or several, all around the world.  I can't think of a better way to raise awareness and help others.  We could have speakers, workshops, and of course social events. 

How many of us do you think there are?  I know a lot of older women who have moved on who would love to know someone of theirown generation who went through it because it was just never talked about and they didn't have the internet... 

I am in fantasy mode today, trying to create my PERFECT life and what I would need, besides a reliable custody schedule from my H, I would love for others to "get" MLC... 

Just a thought, but a good one, I think!  And I promise I would help!
  • Logged
The best thing about banging your head against the wall for so long is that it feels so good when you finally stop...

BD 1/16/10
D Final 7/21/11
exH married OW the next week and moved across the country to be with her... 

LL CHOSE to live happily ever after...

  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 2896
  • Gender: Female
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#1: September 11, 2011, 11:54:00 AM
I've often thought this, I agree!
  • Logged
Work in progress (none of us are perfect)

B
  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 1752
  • Gender: Female
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#2: September 11, 2011, 12:21:12 PM
Me too
  • Logged
Pain is not a punishment, pleasure not a reward.  ~Pema Chodron

A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.  ~Oscare Wilde

M 33
H 33
Married 9 years
3 children (D8, D3 and S7months)
BD-Spring of 2009 EA
H Filed 09/2010

  • *****
  • Administrator
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 13334
  • Gender: Male
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#3: September 11, 2011, 12:30:36 PM
How many of us do you think there are? 
Well with a 50% divorce rate in the US, I would think that the number is rather large in terms of raw numbers.
  • Logged

k
  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 6918
  • Gender: Female
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#4: September 11, 2011, 03:05:04 PM
Great idea - I've also been thinking about this for a very long time too.
Would love to help.
  • Logged

  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 16546
  • Gender: Female
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#5: September 11, 2011, 04:48:17 PM
It is a wondeful idea. Lisa, world round may be many, many of us. Enough for world wide conventions.
  • Logged
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. (Marilyn Monroe)

S
  • ****
  • Sr. Member
  • Posts: 337
  • Gender: Female
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#6: September 11, 2011, 06:16:18 PM
I was wondering that if Oprah was still around on the regular networks...
if someone would write a book based on a compilation of the threads here... it could make it on her "recommended" list.

Or be a featured author at the convention...

Is there a book in the works, RCR? Maybe HB? Or would any of a number of the eloquent posters be an author?
  • Logged
2010

B
  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 1752
  • Gender: Female
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#7: September 11, 2011, 08:49:59 PM
I agree that a book of these stories would be powerful. RCR has a lot of threads here to work with.  I think the most powerful stories would be those that have traveled the length of the crisis or LBS journey...so I believe RCR has the beginnings of some really good stories but there would need to be more time as some of these stories move along and people would need to continue to document even when MLCer comes out of replay so we could see and learn more about the other stages.  I know this is tricky for an LBSer because it seems that as they start to move forward they are detached from the situation more and not as inclined to document...anyway interesting topic.  I do so long to bring MLC out of the closet so to speak because it breaks my heart to think that people are going through this alone with no understanding of the crisism
  • Logged
Pain is not a punishment, pleasure not a reward.  ~Pema Chodron

A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.  ~Oscare Wilde

M 33
H 33
Married 9 years
3 children (D8, D3 and S7months)
BD-Spring of 2009 EA
H Filed 09/2010

B
  • ****
  • Sr. Member
  • Posts: 441
  • Gender: Male
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#8: September 11, 2011, 09:02:04 PM
I'd like to see an MLC database. A template that we all work to, where we can add living information that we sometimes have our polls about, and a place for us to write our stories, add birth order, lat/long etc.

It's the geeky engineer in me at play. I've actually been working on a time-line application that was inspired by all of this.

bnw
  • Logged

B
  • *****
  • Hero Member
  • Posts: 1752
  • Gender: Female
Re: RCR should plan a convention...
#9: September 11, 2011, 09:10:20 PM
NO I agree BNW....RCR has the potential for quantitative data here...and she could have a lot but also the stories themselves could serve as a form of qualitative data which may reveal more about the MLC process....can you imagine if there are psychologists out there studying this stuff what I site like this would provide...I don't know if it would be taken seriously as data from experts but it certainly should there is tons of information in these stories....especially the ones that document frequently.
  • Logged
Pain is not a punishment, pleasure not a reward.  ~Pema Chodron

A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.  ~Oscare Wilde

M 33
H 33
Married 9 years
3 children (D8, D3 and S7months)
BD-Spring of 2009 EA
H Filed 09/2010

 

Legal Disclaimer

The information contained within The Hero's Spouse website family (www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com, http://theherosspouse.com and associated subdomains), (collectively 'website') is provided as general information and is not intended to be a substitute for professional legal, medical or mental health advice or treatment for specific medical conditions. The Hero's Spouse cannot be held responsible for the use of the information provided. The Hero's Spouse recommends that you consult a trained medical or mental health professional before making any decision regarding treatment of yourself or others. The Hero's Spouse recommends that you consult a legal professional for specific legal advice.

Any information, stories, examples, articles, or testimonials on this website do not constitute a guarantee, or prediction regarding the outcome of an individual situation. Reading and/or posting at this website does not constitute a professional relationship between you and the website author, volunteer moderators or mentors or other community members. The moderators and mentors are peer-volunteers, and not functioning in a professional capacity and are therefore offering support and advice based solely upon their own experience and not upon legal, medical, or mental health training.