[crazyforhim]

I really do love all this support-
but of course the break up didn't last long...didn't really think it would. So now they are back together.
Ugh!!
I know what I have to do...
I so realize this takes time and it's hard to imagine that they can actually come out of this better people.
Cause how do you finally take a good hard look at your life when you are with an OW and avoiding at all costs.

I will be strong...I will get through this and at the end I know that I will have gone on a greater journey of my own self discovery.
That in itself is something to look forward to

Thanks again,
CFH

[Chloe1977]

I'm still trying to figure out why the alienator is still with my H even though my H moved back home a year ago. Even though we are romantically involved, she still clings to him as if he will up and leave again. Maybe he will....I don't know. But he claims he won't and that he's told her that. I'm sorry, but if I were her, I wouldn't be holding on to a married man who has moved back home and remains married. In a way, I feel sorry for her. But in another way, she's getting what she deserves as she played a hand in this affair as well. I've lost count at how many times they've split up.

[MsZing]

HI CHloe

I wonder how much of their clinging is about power and control? Wanting to prove they can grab and hold another woman's H and then feel they are special or better in some way?

[kikki]

That's a really good point MsZing, but how scarily dysfunctional!!

[MsZing]

Kikki
Ive seen women like that and I have had friends like that as well. They tip their hat for a married or taken man to prove they are more desireable than the other woman. Very sick and b!tc#y! Have to be pretty heartless and have low self esteem and no morals! Hey sounds like an OW LOL

[kikki]

Have to be pretty heartless and have low self esteem and no morals! Hey sounds like an OW LOL

Sure does   

[Dandy Lion]

These OW have so many issues that I think some of them just won't let go.  They need to learn lessons too and get help for their issues and stop ruining other peoples lives.

[With Gods Help!]

hi ladies i know what you mean about the o/w being clingy and needy...but remember its our h's that allow to them to be .....if our h's truly wanted them out of their lives for good they would find away.....at the minute these o/w are filling in a void they think can be only met by o/w...its easier for our h to cope with o/w as they dont have the strength yet to face up to what they have done with us/family..never mind repair it.........it will come one day and the o/w will be thrown under the bus. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Foxberry]

WGH, I would sell tickets to see my H's OW thrown under a bus!

Foxy xxxx

[justasking]

Fox

Selling tickets to watch OW being thrown under a bus gives her power she doesn't deserve. Better to let her fall under the bus alone without anyone thinking about her  . Now that is real karma 

xx