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#50: February 28, 2012, 06:08:52 PM
HEY Look at that!  Thanks Tsunami!

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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#51: February 28, 2012, 08:30:28 PM
Hi Tsunami!  Good to look down the list and see your name. I hope all is well, well as well as well can be.

I am kind of single I guess although I keep being reminded  :) by those here that a separation means I am still married...seems like a rather strange marriage.....

Thinking about you and keep holding onto hope...I was always fond of that phrase "it ain't over until the fat lady sings" or something of that nature!
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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#52: February 28, 2012, 09:09:34 PM
xyzcf, I am still here everyday, but don't have a thread or post anymore.  I think you know the history behind that decision.

Court stuff is ramping up again, so I'm starting to get into that freak out mode again.  Delaying lamniplasty, trying to buy myself time to avoid a financial settlement too early.  Should have NEVER done all the yardwork last year by myself, but I'm a hard headed old broad.

Still saying my daily prayers for the LBS and the kids who are in the middle of all of the confusion.

Like I told Thundarr earlier...."We should give this crap up for lent!"

Thanks for all the warm welcome backs, when I didn't ever leave in the first place, you all have helped me to smile tonight.

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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#53: February 28, 2012, 09:15:33 PM
 :)  Hey..Kaci and I were just heading to bed...smiling right back at you!

Keep up the prayers..If I had a nickel for every prayer that has been said......

I'm getting better....going to travel a bit in May, have started a very intense voluteer position with children in placement..something to get my teeth into....staying in my home (yippee) and finding myself again..I had lost me for such a long time that it is interesting to get to know her again.

Please let us know if you have surgery....ok?
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"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Hebrews 11:1

"You enrich my life and are a source of joy and consolation to me. But if I lose you, I will not, I must not spend the rest of my life in unhappiness."

" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#54: February 29, 2012, 04:54:00 AM
Tsunami:

LOL, if only!

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Like I told Thundarr earlier...."We should give this crap up for lent!"

Remember you told me you were getting out in that sunshine today!  You know we are all deficient in vitamin D! :)

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#55: March 01, 2012, 07:35:52 PM
Bless me Sassy, I lied, but that's because it rained.

Just saw Gallager posted on your thread in regards to her MLC reading this list.  So out of curiosity, how many of you have shared this list with your MLC'er?  I would be very interested in hearing their response to it, and if they felt it was accurate.

Also, since this thread has been so hot this week, posting to bump up for those that have not had the opportunity to read it.

Many thanks, and keeping you all in my prayers.
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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#56: March 02, 2012, 02:11:08 AM
Tsunami --

I have no idea how I seemed to have missed this the first time round, and you are right, it is "hot" right now, rightly so.   

I'm not in any position to share this with my MLCer, don't actually know if that would ever be a good idea. 
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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#57: March 02, 2012, 05:00:17 AM
As you know, I showed it to my MLC'er and he stated that it was spot on.  Not that makes me feel better, but it is validating.

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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#58: March 02, 2012, 08:41:42 AM
Thanks for the bump...LOL!
I didn't read this the first time around but definitely makes you understand and see so much of it in my H anyway
I would like to show it to him ONE day!
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Re: Signs of Depression during MLC
#59: March 02, 2012, 06:03:06 PM
T,

Thanks for the bump.  I, too, missed it first time around.  What a great article.

I printed it out and took it to my therapy session today.  My T and I spent a lot of time talking about the "MLCers have affairs" item.  Wow!  That's a powerful one.

Thanks again for bringing this back up. 

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