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MLC Monster Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#120: October 03, 2011, 03:35:03 PM
No idea. I have not seen him in over three years. But, given that he has a public life, and sometimes people talk about him, well, I guess he must.

Most people think we are divorced. And with good reason, we are separated for 5 years, I moved back home over 4 years ago, I have not seen him in over 3 years, hardly talk about him or the situation to anyone. Family and close friends know we are still married and that husband lives with someone else. But that is all most of them know. 

I know OW2 did not knew he was married when they meet. I was already back home and, after OW1, he put "single" on his social networks. She did no went after the married man. She got interested in this nice, cheerful guy that leads the same clubbing and party life she does. No idea what husband told OW2. Only know she knows he is still legally married.
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from-2
#121: October 27, 2011, 04:01:01 PM
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from-2
#122: October 27, 2011, 05:33:54 PM
Interesting link, Still. However don't agree with this "Simply because you are his wife, every other woman by definition seems easier to talk to." At least I don't think this apply to my husband. Talk, as in a real talk? Don't think it is easier for a man to talk to a stranger...but...

As for the part of the world full of possibilities...well, think that is valid fo us, the wife as well. Everywhere we look there is a man that looks nice and makes us feel a momentaneous happyness. So always say sorry because you don't know if he had had a good moment is silly. We may also had had a good moment...
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from-2
#123: October 28, 2011, 01:58:10 AM
Some of the phrases my wife loves:

"I separated  you, not the kids"
" The kids will adapt"
" There is no guilty party in a separation"
" I have done nothing I have to be ashamed of"
" The professionals think that ..." ( when she is talking about her new psycologist and lawyer best friends)
"I haven´t loved you for many, many years"
" This is not my home any more" ( talking about the house where her two sons still live!)
" Don´t call me Tam, my name is Tammy"(I have always used a short name for her, let´s say her name is Tammy and I call her Tam. She never seemed to mind. She does now)
 
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Married: 18 Years    Together:26 years  
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BD: Feb. 2011     Status: Divorced   Alienator: Yes, PA
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