[Shantilly Lace]

My sister came to visit last year.  It was purely legal stuff in regards to the fact she will buy our parents house out at market value.  The paperworkwas to say asmuch.

Anyway Dearheart says, WE don't want any money from your family.   

Uh you're living with ow and I for one think the money may be handy one day!   

[Glimmer]

Just remembered part of a conversation I had with my H last summer during a R talk.

We were sat in the garden and he was  telling me how wonderful this OW was and how they had so much in common.  He then said to me that he hoped I could meet someone else, someone I had a lot in common with.  We would both be happy then, and the four of us could meet up as friends and have some great times together.!!   

[Millvina]

Not come across this thread before, really made me smile. I find this reading from the same script
thing amazing. Here is one of mine
"I want you in my life I just haven't decided how that will look yet."

Plus loads of the same as everyone else!

[kikki]

How about -

'she (OW) makes me feel calm and safe'

'she is just so intelligent'  (I have my doubts)

'she doesn't like you' -
of course not, she's shagging my husband! 
'No, it's because you won't let me see the boys'.  (Huh?)
Perhaps it's time you told her the truth - that your boys don't like spending time with you because of your behaviours and actions. 
'yes you're right, I should tell her'......... (I won't hold my breath)

'she can't understand why the boys don't spend half the week with me' 
Your boys are teenagers - that is their choice. 
'She just doesn't understand'
(well - how about filling her in then!)

'Thanks for being so strong throughout this'

'You are amazing'

'I don't ever want you to feel abandoned or worried about anything' (He left a year ago and we had no idea where he was living for three months and is constantly threatening legal action against me whenever I stop him from seeing me)

'I'm always more here with you than anywhere else' (really - in mind or body?)

'This has to stop.  It is weird how I left a year ago, but haven't really left.  I'm always coming here to see you'  (yip, you sure are!)

'I know the OW is an addiction, but I haven't even begun to sort that one out yet' (no kidding)





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[Little Chief]

Although nothing tops the Helping the ow thing, I've got a few...

These are just friends
Texting with friends is just something I do now
You'll have to get over it

And my favorite:  The kids will be fine, I am

[summer progress]

Mine also said "The kids will be fine... (they are 18, 20, 22) they are grown."

Here are others:

I do not appreciate you the way that you deserve to be appreciated... You deserve someone who will appreciate you.

You are handeling this very maturely.

It is not you... (This changes weekly to something I have done in the past).

It is not the amount of love you give, you give more love than a person deserves.

There is nothing wrong with me... (changed to... I am so messed up and confused inside).

I can see you getting remarried in the future, but I do not think that I will ever remarry. (might be.. I want you to move on, but I am seeing if you want to move on)

You understand what is wrong with me more than I do (but he had said there is nothing wrong with him... hmmm?).

I need to "click" off our relationship in order to work on myself. We will always see each other in the future and it may "click" back on.

I realize I could be making the biggest mistake of my life and that I may have to come back on my hands and knees and beg for forgiveness (same person who wants me to get on with my life?).

It is never too late... Her new husband could die and they could get back together. (Said after hearing about how my friend's brother got divorced and his wife remarried and wants nothing to do with him).

I have to get you out of my head.

I do not like how optomistic you are because I am a cynic.

I do not like public displays of affection.

I love you (changed to... I do not understand the difference between like and love).

We have had the best 23 years of our lives and I need to end it before one of us hurts each other. I want to look back on how great those years were.

I wonder if I am like a wounded animal running away from the pack to die?

(To 2 of the kids) I feel crowded and angry and need to leave to fix myself... (With other son 1 week later turned to.. Your mother and I are having problems).

I do not trust people, I do not trust anyone, I do not even trust myself.

That is society's view of marriage.

I do not know if I believe in marriage.

I have never made any decisions for myself without the influence of others.

(About our relationship)... It is like that shed, it needs to be torn down and fixed from the ground up.

Sigh!

[summer progress]

I forgot these:

I only have 10 to 20 years left to live.

One day you will thank me for this. (As if?)

[faithful with Love]

They all sound the same... Just sad so sad...
My h told me I hated him lastnight... I said no I dont. I am still in love with you... he said no you hate me... I said no I hate what you have done...
Poor h is so lost in his his head..
If I hated you I would have left you a long time ago, I would have dealt with this...
Man they are something arent they?

[LifeGoesOn]

(when in monster) "ALL I GET FROM YOU IS ANGER!" 

(after monster) "I have no memories."

[Mamma Bear]

 2 weeks after BD when I tracked him to an alleyway behind his job I said "We can go on a cruise together."  With dead eyes he said " A cruise? I'd jump over the side of the ship to get away from you."
  Nice.