[Mamma Bear]

  L and S LMAO!!   Too funny. They are nuts.  Mine told the Ds once that we would all go out to the diner with OW and Mommy and all be friends.

[Anjae]

One day you will thank me for this. (As if?)

I've been told that one as well after BD. That he was doing me a favour and, one day, I will thank him for this.

Maybe he was right and that day has come. I'm really thankful, learned a lot, changed a lot, grew a lot, went through many and hard family situations, meet many new wonderful people, including you all here in the forum. Thing is, I suspect he will not be the beneficiary of the new improved me.

[Stillpraying]

The day after I found out about OW and H asked to come see me but I wouldn't so he just couldn't help himself and sent a text to 'explain':

"She is the most beautiful caring person I know and she is INNOCENT in all this."  (I wonder if he still feels the same way 6 months later?)

"It just happened.   I didn't want you to think I left you for her.  The flowers I bought [$96 worth -2 weeks prior] were for another person at work"

"I was going to tell you in 3 months" (Yes, H, I know.  So you could pass it off as a new relationship and not an affair?

[LettingGo]

L&S..... you're definitely in the running for craziest..... but someone's husband used the line "I know she's a ow, but she needs me..." and I think it still might be tops in my book, LOL!!

RE: Breaking OW's heart.... heard this one only a month ago when I asked why he went to OW's for her birthday.... "Because even though I'm breaking up with her for life, I didn't want to break her heart on her birthday...." two weeks prior to that, he spent HIS birthday with her... when asked WHY he would do such a thing, when his kids had to write "happy birthday Daddy" on his FB wall... his answer? "Because she did something really nice for me (threw him a party... no agenda there!) and I didn't want you and the kids doing anything for my birthday since I don't deserve it...." Ok, and how did he justify spending MY birthday with OW, after giving me the big buildup about how perfect and wonderful he was going to make it this year?... "Why are you upset? It's not like SHE knew it was your birthday!!" ummmm.... unless she checked my FB page, which I'm pretty sure she did since she's threatened by me...

[Mamma Bear]

  LG That is hysteriacl. " It's not like SHE knew it was your Birthday...." OMG.  That does it. It's official,  they are INSANE!!!!!  What does what your Hs Affair partner not knowing it's your birthday have to do with anything..?      I mean if we didn't find each other on here we'd be in a rubber room. No wonder they cling to us. Who else would/could put up with all of this. 

 Just remembered, my H sometimes sees me looking at him when he's leaving with the Ds and he'll say "Awww. Why don't you take a long,hot bath and listen to some Jackson Browne?"   Does he really think it's necessary to give me advice on how to deal with the stress of being abandoned by HIM?   Why not write a book  " How to De-stress When your Spouse lives with a Skank Ho"    published by Harper/Collins.
    Nice coffee table book.

[Anjae]

The day after I found out about OW and H asked to come see me but I wouldn't so he just couldn't help himself and sent a text to 'explain':

"She is the most beautiful caring person I know and she is INNOCENT in all this."  (I wonder if he still feels the same way 6 months later?)

"It just happened.   I didn't want you to think I left you for her.  The flowers I bought [$96 worth -2 weeks prior] were for another person at work"

"I was going to tell you in 3 months" (Yes, H, I know.  So you could pass it off as a new relationship and not an affair?

Priceless!  I also have that of was going to tell you after I left and a it has passed a while since I've moved in with X (a single male acquaintance of husband). Husband really did not wanted anyone to know it was an affair. He had not even told the guy he went to live with that the affair had started before he left and move in with this guy. So, OW1 only made her public appearance a few weeks after husband left. The all "they were already separated, she did not come in between". No of course not.

Well, she did not come in between, he let someone come between us.

[Stillpraying]

AnneJ.

Mind you the text I 'accidentally' received from my H to OW, stated "Love you" on it.  Well, my my,  that was quick then.........  Declaring your love for some one in the first week of your relationship???

[Anjae]

Still, they are quicker than teenagers. don't remember husband, then, boyfriend aged 17, saying "I love you" in the first month, let alone first week...

[kikki]

    Why not write a book  " How to De-stress When your Spouse lives with a Skank Ho"    published by Harper/Collins.
    Nice coffee table book.

That's a brilliant idea - can you just imagine the illustrations!!!   
Photographs or illustrations do you think?  Or a mix of both perhaps?

[Anjae]

    Why not write a book  " How to De-stress When your Spouse lives with a Skank Ho"    published by Harper/Collins.
    Nice coffee table book.

That's a brilliant idea - can you just imagine the illustrations!!!   
Photographs or illustrations do you think?  Or a mix of both perhaps?

Nah... that is nor fair to the ones of us whose husband live in nice flats with nice looking OW, like mine does. They have a interiors design magazine look a like flat. And OW looks so sweet an gentle that it would end up being a really good coffee table book. 

LG, how come OW can see you FB page or even just your birthday on it? It is possible to only have that info for your friends. Do you have your FB page open to everyone? Is OW on your FB page?...