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MLC Monster Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#10: April 15, 2011, 01:06:36 PM
Oh oh I have one

But why can't I have both of you?
We could all live together and share  ::)

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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#11: April 15, 2011, 01:16:57 PM
Quote from: ShantillyLace on April 15, 2011, 01:06:36 PM
Oh oh I have one

But why can't I have both of you?
We could all live together and share  ::)

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Ha! I got a version of that with the added..."there will just be a little kissing and hand-holding. She will be a good influence on the kids."   :o :o :o :o

But the "she likes to cook and clean" really got me considering the proposition!!!!


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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#12: April 15, 2011, 01:37:47 PM
LGO..you are kidding right???? ;D I am going to have to go back and re read some of this for some comic relief!
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#13: April 15, 2011, 02:08:43 PM
nope....no joke... he was serious :P
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#14: April 15, 2011, 02:48:10 PM
Ah yes the cleaning. Must admit she is tidier than me LOL. But then again i have FIVE children and where were her 2 going to stay?

I'm sure she would be thrilled. NOT

I have to admit though i think he realises we are never going to be friends. Finally. I told him from the beginning it wouldn't be that way. He said she's really willing to be friends. Yeah just like she's really willing to have you home here. She said it to make you think wow what a catch.
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#15: April 15, 2011, 03:43:08 PM
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He said she's really willing to be friends. Yeah just like she's really willing to have you home here. She said it to make you think wow what a catch.

Yeah...they really don't see this crap! IDK how tidy OW is. I have 10,000 sq ft under roof that I maintain.....they were living in a ho-tel room with maid service. I could use the help but...  ::)  Based on her grooming habits, I contend she is a pig. :o  "Shallow Hal Syndrome" at work I guess. (I wonder if there is a tail  ;D)
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#16: April 16, 2011, 10:40:18 AM
Hi everyone,

Just been reading this thread, unbelievable.....

My H's "sayings":

we've nothing in common
we've turned into a boring, married couple
it's all my fault
You don't deserve this
I may be finding it hard to say I love you, but I do desperately care about you
I would always be looking over my shoulder and wondering what this other relationship would be like
I want to be your friend
We cannot change the future and what will be, will be
If we'd communicated, this would never have happened

All the above from a man who has not spoken to me AT ALL in any way since 16 December 2010!!!!!! Not exactly the sort of friend I want or need??????

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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#17: April 16, 2011, 11:08:50 AM
Fox,
My H wanted to be friends, too.
Funny, I would never treat a friend like this!
Most friends wouldn't.

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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#18: April 16, 2011, 11:34:06 AM
LOL Last weekend when H dropped off the girls we were talking about how he said "I pushed him away and he was crying on the couh for 10 years"  I told him not to "rewrite history" He accused me of re-writing history by saying we were happy. Finally I looked deep into his eyes and whispered " (His name) , it's me..........."
     Well that did it. His head started turning back and forth really fast and tears started squirting out of his eyes.
     Later he was all boomerang. Parked the car kept coming around to say something else about nothing really..
     Maybe I can be the MLCer Whisperer?
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#19: April 16, 2011, 11:39:04 AM
Maybe whispering is the answer, shouting hasn't worked--crying didn't help.  I might try that. 
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