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MLC Monster Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#20: April 16, 2011, 12:38:01 PM
Maybe I can be the MLCer Whisperer?

PRICELESS!! ROTFLMAO!!!
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#21: April 16, 2011, 02:55:59 PM
We all need to write a book we would be millionaires lol..................My h said that people only judged him because he left me, but they don’t know the real reason why........He said they dont know what goes on behind closed door, he said if they knew they would understand..........sometimes especially at the beginning of BD this makes you question yourself and think was i really that bad..........When i told close friends and family what he said they laughed and said is he joking you have always been a ROCK to him and he knows it and so do we..........i remember at the beginning of finding about o/w i had a dig at her and ended up throwing something at him cos she could do no wrong...........I shouted and said you go on like the owr is perfect, he said she is to me :o :o :o :o :o i said ohhhhhhhhh so perfect people sleep with married men and destroy familys do they, he didnt answer, i cant wait till the day i can call him on all this, it would be interesting to see how he sees her then lol xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#22: April 16, 2011, 02:59:40 PM
Oh I almost forgot this one    " We (he and the OW) got hit by a Tsunami. We weren't looking for this to happen....."
   I wonder if they realize that a Tsunami is a disaster and when it recedes there is a lot of damage strewn all over the place.
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#23: April 16, 2011, 03:22:16 PM
I have heard most of these over the years but my two favorites are:

Just before the divorce, he told me that he will always love me but has to get a divorce.  "If we ever get together, then I'll remarry you"  and...

A week or so after the divorce I received a text asking " REALLY??, you need things to be this way?"... ???

Huh?
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#24: April 16, 2011, 03:28:33 PM
Mine hapened to say acouple of weeks ago.."After you divorced me..." I stopped him right there and said "I DIDN"T divorce you..you divorced ME." He said thoughtfully "Oh..Yeah.."  :o :o :o :o
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#25: April 16, 2011, 03:51:34 PM
The one that really killed me was about a year ago, when H put his arms round me, kissed me, and said:

"I'll always love you, even if I get married to someone else"

He was genuinely surprised when I pushed him away with a cry. :o :o
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#26: April 16, 2011, 04:08:15 PM
What is this "Love" they are talking about anyway??  :o :o

Ask him the next time if he'd love you if YOU married somebody else.. friggin' idiot.

Mine baited me a while ago with "I will always love you"  ::)

WTF are you talking about?? If this is your idea of love baby I don't want anymore of it. You've damn near killed me and your girls. PLEASE DON'T LOVE ME ANYMORE I CAN'T TAKE IT! ::) ::) :o :o
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#27: April 16, 2011, 04:32:40 PM
I asked H that more than once. He said it was a difficult question.

It's about caring, apparently, even if there are no outward signs. Sort of mental love.
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#28: April 16, 2011, 04:46:15 PM
LOL...they can really be quite ridiculous.

I love it when I can put together the various contradictions...I've heard:

I don't think I love you.....I don't think I ever loved you.....I have and will always love you
We probably should have never gotten married.......I should have never gotten a divorce
You over-analyze everything......One of the things that I love about you is that you give things so much thought
You're not a nice person..........You're the kindest person that I know
I'm really at peace now, I'm happier.........What makes you think I'm happy now? (ummm, cuz you told me)  :)
I just want to be left alone.........how come I always have to be the one to contact you?
I never want to hurt you......sometimes I do things on purpose to hurt you

This is why it's called the crazy train....


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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#29: April 16, 2011, 04:57:44 PM
Crazy traain is right!!!!

These buggers are SOOOOOO conflicted they don't know what to think or say.

Eventually the stuff starts to sift and shift and the picture becomes clearer.

They have had a set of goggles on that keep everything out of focus.
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