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Off-Topic Re: A song
#10: March 03, 2013, 04:14:13 PM
I hadn't looked it up, but just did:

http://www.chrisaugustmusic.com/songs/restore

It is an amazing story and an amazing reason why he wrote it I think. 
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Re: A song
#11: March 19, 2013, 09:11:16 AM
Another song...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qrlI_G5cxVw

And I don't consider myself an evangelical, however this really does fit for so many of us here. 
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LBS Song of the Day
#12: October 28, 2013, 09:51:17 AM
Not sure if there is such a thread already, but if not, here's a good one:

I will survive by Gloria Gaynor

At first I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
without you by my side
But then I spent so many nights
thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along
and so you're back
from outer space
I just walked in to find you here
with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
you'd be back to bother me

Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Did you think I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
oh as long as i know how to love
I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive (hey hey)

It took all the strength I had
not to fall apart
kept trying hard to mend
the pieces of my broken heart
and I spent oh so many nights
just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high
and you see me
somebody new
I'm not that chained up little girl who's
still in love with you
and so you felt like dropping in
and just expect me to be free
But now I'm saving all my loving
for someone who's loving me

Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
Did you think I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
oh as long as i know how to love
I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive (oh)

Go on now go, walk out the door
just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye
Did you think I'd crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
oh as long as i know how to love
I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive
I will survive...!
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Re: LBS Song of the Day
#13: October 28, 2013, 10:04:29 AM
Here's what will be one of my many contributions  ;D  ;D  ;D
Fighter - Christina Aguilera

After all that you put me through,
You think I'd despise you,
But in the end I wanna thank you,
'Cause you've made me that much stronger

Well I thought I knew you, thinkin' that you were true
Guess I, I couldn't trust called your bluff time is up
'Cause I've had enough
You were there by my side, always down for the ride
But your joy ride just came down in flames 'cause your greed sold me out in shame

After all of the stealing and cheating you probably think that I hold resentment for you
But uh uh, oh no, you're wrong
'Cause if it wasn't for all that you tried to do, I wouldn't know
Just how capable I am to pull through
So I wanna say thank you
'Cause it

[Chorus:]
Makes me that much stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
It makes me that much wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
Makes me that much smarter
So thanks for making me a fighter

Never saw it coming, all of your backstabbing
Just so you could cash in on a good thing before I'd realize your game
I heard you're going round playing the victim now
But don't even begin feeling I'm the one to blame
'Cause you dug your own grave
After all of the fights and the lies 'cause you're wanting to haunt me
But that won't work anymore, no more,
It's over
'Cause if it wasn't for all of your torture
I wouldn't know how to be this way now and never back down
So I wanna say thank you
'Cause it

[Chorus]

How could this man I thought I knew
Turn out to be unjust so cruel
Could only see the good in you
Pretend not to see the truth
You tried to hide your lies, disguise yourself
Through living in denial
But in the end you'll see
YOU-WON'T-STOP-ME

I am a fighter and I
I ain't gonna stop
There is no turning back
I've had enough

[Chorus]

You thought I would forget
But I remembered
'Cause I remembered
I remembered
You thought I would forget
I remembered
'Cause I remembered
I remembered

[Chorus]
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Re: LBS Song of the Day
#14: October 28, 2013, 10:08:49 AM
Great thread, Snowdrop!  My song of choice at the moment is "Never Again" by Kelly Clarkson.  I know, not very inspiring.  But this is what I am feeling as of late.

I hope the ring you gave to her turns her finger green
I hope when your in bed with her, you think of me
I would never wish bad things, but I don't wish you well
Could you tell, by the flames that burned your words

I never read your letter
'Cos I knew what you'd say
Give me that Sunday school answer
Try and make it all OK

[Chorus]
Does it hurt to know I'll never be there
Bet it sucks, to see my face everywhere
It was you, who chose to end it like you did
I was the last to know
You knew exactly what you would do
And don't say, you simply lost your way
She may believe you but I never will
Never again

If she really knows the truth, she deserves you
A trophy wife, oh how cute
Ignorance is bliss
But when your day comes, and he's through with you
And he'll be through with you
You'll die together but alone

You wrote me in a letter
You couldn't say it right to my face
Give me that Sunday school answer
Repent yourself away

[Chorus]
Does it hurt to know I'll never be there
Bet it sucks, to see my face everywhere
It was you, who chose to end it like you did
I was the last to know
You knew exactly what you would do
And don't say, you simply lost your way
They may believe you but I never will
Never again

[Bridge]
Never again will I hear you
Never again will I miss you
Never again will I fall to you
Never

Never again will I kiss you
Never again will I want to
Never again will I love you
Never

[Chorus]
Does it hurt to know I'll never be there
Bet it sucks, to see my face everywhere
It was you, who chose to end it like you did
I was the last to know
You knew exactly what you would do
And don't say, you simply lost your way
They may believe you but I never will
I never will
I never will

Never again 


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Re: LBS Song of the Day
#15: October 28, 2013, 10:09:16 AM
Here is a poem i'd like to share

Mid-Life Crisis – Nelson Mongiovi
 
 
Half a century old, I feel like
a starfish stranded on the shore
reaching for water
in five different directions.
 
A new shade of night
has descended upon me;
the weight of my choices
drips from my eyes.
 
Ruin has become a habit
impossible to break.
Only my shadow welcomes me
in the dim light.
 
My lucid moments
are no longer frequent
or as good
as the psychotic.
 
I hate this life
so deeply,
almost as deeply
as I love it.
 
 

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Initially : I don't want her and I don't want you.
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To find out if the grass is greener one must take risks.
I did'nt want this but after what I've done i will have to go.
I think I love her and I'm unsure about you.
If you love me you will have to let me go...I'll come back when I am old.
I want to have fun ..I can't live another 15 yrs with you.
WHY,WHY...asks himself.
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Re: LBS Song of the Day
#16: October 28, 2013, 10:15:37 AM
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I hope the ring you gave to her turns her finger green

That made me laugh as we had to endure H wanting to tell the kids and I his great story ::) of how he had a sore finger once, and only to realize he was wearing OWs wedding ring, as they have matching ones.  :o :o :o :o :o 

What a winner he is, that H.

If anyone EVER hears me say I can't wait for him to come home, PLEASE remind me of that conversation.
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Re: LBS Song of the Day
#17: October 28, 2013, 10:18:07 AM
Snowdrop!  LOL!  That is hilarious!!  I am sure that there will definitely be a ton of folks to remind you should you mention it!  LOL! 

Lovebystanding:  Great poem! 

This should be an interesting thread!!  I look forward to what everyone posts on here! 

CT  8)
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Re: LBS Song of the Day
#18: October 28, 2013, 10:32:16 AM
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I hope the ring you gave to her turns her finger green

That made me laugh as we had to endure H wanting to tell the kids and I his great story ::) of how he had a sore finger once, and only to realize he was wearing OWs wedding ring, as they have matching ones.  :o :o :o :o :o 

What a winner he is, that H.

If anyone EVER hears me say I can't wait for him to come home, PLEASE remind me of that conversation.
No Way!!  We are NEVER going to let you forget that one  ;D  ;D 

They really do produce some gems, don't they?!

I'll resist the temptation to add the Katy Perry Roar song... ;) and will add P!nk instead.

"So What"

Na na na na na na na na na na na na [x2]
I guess I just lost my husband,
I don't know where he went,
So I'm gonna drink my money,
I'm not gonna pay his rent,
I got a brand new attitude and
I'm gonna wear it tonight,
I wanna get in trouble,
I wanna start a fight,
na na na na na na na I wanna start a fight,
na na na na na na na I wanna start a fight.

[Chorus:]
So, so what
I'm still a rock star,
I got my rock moves,
And I don't need you,
And guess what,
I'm having more fun,
And now that we’re done,
I'm gonna show you tonight,
I'm alright,
I'm just fine,
And you're a tool,
So, so what,
I am a rock star,
I got my rock moves,
And I don't want you tonight.

(Uh check my flow, aw)
The waiter just took my table,
And gave it to Jessica Simps ($h!te!),
I guess I'll go sit with drum boy,
At least he'll know how to hit,
What if this song's on the radio,
then somebody's gonna die,
I'm gonna get in trouble,
My ex will start a fight,
na na na na na na na he's gonna start a fight,
na na na na na na na we're all gonna get in a fight!

[Chorus]

You weren't there,
You never were,
You want it all,
But that's not fair,
I gave you life,
I gave my all,
You weren't there,
You let me fall.

[Chorus]

No, no, no, no
I don't want you tonight,
You weren't there,
I'm gonna show you tonight,
I'm alright,
And you're a tool,
And your a tool,
So, so what,
I am a rock star,
I got my rock moves,
And I don't want you tonight!
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Re: LBS Song of the Day
#19: October 28, 2013, 10:39:14 AM
Oh, I had a few songs I listened to to get my spirits up when in the thick of my H's MLC, once I could listen to music again...that took two years. They are:
No Good Woman, by Else LeGrow, Forget You, ( the nasty version)by Cee Lo Green, Stronger by Kelly Clarkson, and many Pink songs, which I could be found singing in my car when I was alone. It helped.
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