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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#50: November 17, 2010, 01:52:32 AM
A few more have sprung to mind:

I'm concerned about our relationship
I don't know what I want
Your not happy

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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#51: November 17, 2010, 04:24:44 AM
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I'm sorry, I tried to push these feelings away but you just kept pestering me.

Wow, Chloe.

My H said, "If you had never backed me in the corner, I never would have told you how I was feeling."

He still says that I caused all of this.....I guess if I hadn't kept asking him about his feelings, he would never have gone through MLC.  :o
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#52: November 17, 2010, 04:57:35 AM
ExH said this about me also.
He made the statement about ow

My involvement with her was more about you than her  :o

Wouldn't that be more about him than me?
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#53: November 17, 2010, 06:34:52 AM
Yes many of these scripts sound familiar from my wife, who had been the very best partner for the 23 years before BD two years ago, very difficult for both of us since. Anyway, the very best line from her before moving to a tiny appt. in August (leaving me and daughter (15) was:

"I can be a better parent from a distance"

Does not get much better than that...
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#54: November 17, 2010, 07:52:27 AM
I haven't heard as many as some of you but can add a few of the same a couple of new ones to the list.

I Love You...but not romantically any more.

Not willing to work on our relationship because the beast inside me is forcing me to the OW.

The beast says I have to try this other relationship to see where it goes.

I want us to be friends so if I break up with OW I will know if you are seeing someone so we can get back together in the future. 

The OW is willing to do fun stuff I wasn't willing to do.  So far...they have only done everything we did together...she just replaced me with the OW.   
 
A few to add to the list....

I want to chance to do all the fun stuff I can before I'm to old.
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#55: November 17, 2010, 12:22:54 PM
Ok, this one takes the cake in my mind...
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I want us to be friends so if I break up with OW I will know if you are seeing someone so we can get back together in the future. 
. Thanks Food Gal!

Perhaps we can vote on which ones we like best and submit them to David Letterman for his top 10 list of what MLCer's say to their devoted, loving and wonderful spouses...ooopppsss seems to me he might not be sympathetic based on his past history!
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#56: November 17, 2010, 02:12:53 PM
My favorite is:
 "I don't know."  Because i think this might be the ONLY true statement any of them say.
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#57: November 17, 2010, 03:16:07 PM
Agreed! I heard this for months!!! I think they do (at least my h) he just didn't want to SAY it out loud.
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#58: November 17, 2010, 07:00:22 PM
Oh, I forgot about this one:

It wouldn't be fair to OW if I stayed here.
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#59: November 17, 2010, 07:12:04 PM
Oh JF&D  You have GOT to be kidding!!!! :o :o :o
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