[summer progress]

So far I still think the funniest thing H said was that our son "...thinks I am going through a midlife crisis." 

[summer progress]

Next funniest thing... "These thoughts keep creeping up in my head"

[Thundarr]

Hey Mamma,

And where might one meet one of these "chippies."  Just in case anyone asks of course.....  lol

[Stillpraying]

Oh yeah Mama - we have chippees here too 

Kikki,
Aren't 'Chippees' Carpenters?  Atleast I thought so in Aus.  Perhaps Shantilly or Ez can confirm.
SP

[With Gods Help!]

mmmmmm I love chippees in the UK we buy chippees from the fish and chip shop lol xxxxxxxxxxx

[Mamma Bear]

  Thundarr, Actually he said "Young college Chippees" Look around at the college when you're not standing anymore and you are healed That way you won't make matters worse on a whim and act like them

[Faith]

Chippee??  Hahahaha!!  Well what a relief to hear she's old and smart.

I still can't believe there are MLCers who actually admit and talk about their OW's.  Mine will deny his until the divorce is final and he can proclaim he JUST met her.  Can't have anyone (aka his parents who think he's perfect) thinking he would have a "GASP" affair!!

Ok....here's a kind of funny one from my stbx last week.

There was a lot of ugliness that happened between him and D17 when she wouldn't come hang out at his "condo" as he calls it, which is the office space he lives in.  She didn't back down, so he texted me one of his looooong speeches about how it's all my fault, blah blah blah.  It was full of his normal rage and insane ramblings.  Same old same old.

My reply:  "I wonder if you'll ever write a new speech?"

H:  lol

H:  I'm not very creative I guess
            

[Stillpraying]

mmmmmm I love chippees in the UK we buy chippees from the fish and chip shop lol xxxxxxxxxxx

Yep, we call them that too but usually when talking with the little kiddies

[Thundarr]

Oh yeah Mama - we have chippees here too 

Kikki,
Aren't 'Chippees' Carpenters?  Atleast I thought so in Aus.  Perhaps Shantilly or Ez can confirm.
SP

If that's the case, meeting them is out. Lol

[kikki]

Oh yeah Mama - we have chippees here too 

Kikki,
Aren't 'Chippees' Carpenters?  Atleast I thought so in Aus.  Perhaps Shantilly or Ez can confirm.
SP

If that's the case, meeting them is out. Lol

Yes - in the southern hemisphere - chippies are carpenters    and also hot chips when talking to little kids 

Well - how about this when talking about OW.
My H a couple of months ago, asked if I would attend counselling with him, as he wants to work towards coming home, and it would be good for us to work out how to 'MOVE FORWARD'!  (Yes, the dreaded words again!).

Having zero expectations and all, and then the MLCer madly cycles away - the counselling turns into - 'you're keeping the boys away from me'.

When we had clarified that the boys would be sticking to their guns and having absolutely nothing to do with the OW, my H turns and says to me in his best whiney 11 year old persona 'couldn't you help by telling the boys that she would NEVER hurt them, that their Dad would never hurt them, and that she is safe to be around?'

I just looked at him and raised my eyebrows.  I didn't think I needed to validate that, given the HURT the pair of them have caused our kids these past two years!!!!