[learningtoexhale]

I just tried to follow the instructions on posting a new thread so that I could post my story.  After typing the entire thing and hitting "post", I was met with an error message saying I was not allowed to post.  How do I post my story?  I am obviously missing something in the instructions, would like to become more active with the forum...please help 

[xyzcf]

Learningtoexhale...did you choose new topic first?


EDIT - Did you put in the right confirmation code, letters or numbers?  - OldPilot

[learningtoexhale]

Thanks!  It worked that time, hope I posted in the right place...I'm a newbie!

Edit by Stayed:

Fantastic, welcome to the forum, I shall look out for your new thread. 


Learning, I just posted on your thread.  Looks like you are up and running.
Bon

[LoveMeMyself]

Does anybody know how to start receiving notifications again?  I used to get them but haven't gotten them in forever.

Thanks.

[OldPilot]

Does anybody know how to start receiving notifications again?  I used to get them but haven't gotten them in forever.

Thanks.

Please check the settings in your profile, yours are set for only notifying you of the first reply.
You need to change them for what you want.

[LoveMeMyself]

Thanks, OP.  I'll check it out. 

[stayed]

I had the same problem Lovemyman... but when the site went down the last time, all of them went back to default... so I have been slowly putting everything back on "notify".

hugs Stayed...

[FixingMyself]

Hi can someone direct me to advice for setting boundaries with my MLCer who visits the kids in our apartment 3/4 times a week. He has been rude and difficult in front of the kids and I cant tolerate it.
Or should I? i've already been doing it when he lived here I went from arguing with him to difusing and not reacting. But he doesnt live here he needs to know that life has changed its too stressful for me.

I have provided an update on your own thread.   CrazyStuff

[Tsunami]

Fixing, I am not a mentor but here is the link to all of RCR's standing articles....

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/site-map.html

Boundaries is at the bottom of the page.

Have a great night!

[LoveMeMyself]

Okay, I have a question........it may have been covered already.......but if it has I don't know where. 

      I've been noticing in several postings that depression is a major part of MLC.  What if the MLC'er clings and hangs onto that as the very reason/cause for their behavior?  Will this prevent them from really facing and seeing the true issues that caused this to happen?  My exH is on AD's and going to counseling/therapy.  Is there a chance that he will completely bypass all the issues due to the fact that he is so focused on depression being the root cause of his "illness"?