[stayed]

Sorry, missed the vote by about 2 mos. but honestly, it was the best written and best story there.  I read it to my h and even he, who is not too crazy about getting involved with these sites as he still has a desire to not want to think about what he did, thought it was a fantastic story.  He totally related with your h's confusion and was very impressed with how you handled it.
 
He is very grateful for sites like this, as he feels more marriages could be saved if people had the type of support and guidance that this site offers.  He says, MLCrazy as he calls it, is the scariest thing he ever experienced and he is so glad I waited for him.  He feels if MLC was better understood more LBS's would stand and more MLCrazies would be saved.
 
Thank you for creating this site.

From myself (stayed) I would like to see movies, and series depicting MLC/depression/infidelity as it truly is.  Devastating, destructive and MISUNDERSTOOD.  More public awareness is needed and books are great but only good for those who are actually seeking such advise.  Movies, TV shows, even TV Series would reach more people and be more effective. Have you considered writing a Movie Script?

Just my thoughts...   

[sambriony]

RCR congratu;ations to you both.I would suggest a couple of things Twitter is new social network and I am sure there is a route for you there.I also have writtren a story about my H and myself as CD wife.The story was read by a tv presenter and he loved it as it was so unique.Anyway the website www.crossdresserswives.com has a founder who is writing aa book for cd wives and hope to make it ito a film as well as a book.Perhaps its worth making contact and looking at what she did there.Like yourself she is an incredible woman who has helped others through her own life journey.

[Rollercoasterider]

The Blog is open!!!
 
Please check it out. You can sign up to receive posts in your email, follow me on Twitter and become a Fan of The Hero's Spouse at the Facebook Fan Page.
 


The blog is interactive--open to discussion! So please participate.

[Rollercoasterider]

I forgot to give you the Twitter and Facebook buttons. Here they are.
 

 

[Rollercoasterider]

Whew, I'm exhausted. I have uploaded the new look and feel for the main site. The addresses of the articles have changed because I needed to be more organized!
That means that the links on the board pointing to the addresses...no good. So I will start trying to go through and edit them.

Most of the old articles--old addresses, same content--are still there beneath visibility. I wil start deleting them over the next few days.

Some of the Newsletter articles were not attached to series. For those, I plan to transition them over to the blog so that eventually everything from the old format is gone.

There is also a Store! I have added to and edited a few of the articles over the years, but not updated the site versions. Now those updated versions are available. I also removed a few of the longer more academic articles and they are only available for purchase now.

And I'm tired! But I feel good.
Sweetheart and I start an adoption class tomorrow--and continue each evening next week.!

[Rollercoasterider]

Almost forgot...

I created a Site-Map with a list of every article on the main site and it's full address. They are odered by section and then series within the section.

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/site-map.html
 

[Tsunami]

RCR,

Thank you so much for all the lessons, and the hard work you do to maintain the site.   

Many of us would be lost without this forum, and the guidance we receive from it.  You have a great group of warm, caring and loving people here for support.

I wish the best with the upcoming adoption! 

Gratefully,

Tsunami

Okay mods, you can delete this, I just wanted to show gratitude to RCR!

[Rollercoasterider]

I was just reading through LearningIamok's thread and wanted to clarify some things.

The only article series that are available for purchase that are not available for free are those that cost $8.95. They are the more academic series.
 

• Jungian Typlogy
• Types of Men at Midlife--a review of Farrell and Rosenberg's work
• and eventually--when I finish it--Life Cycle & Development.

I will also be adding the Oct-March Coaching Archives--I think for $14.95. They are edited for typos and such, but otherwise are copy and pastes from the actual forum threads in the private Coaching Archives board. It just gives non-subscribers an opportunity to read them and subscribers can have a handy copy if they are interested. Of course, someone with access could copy and paste them into a document on their own too. I can't and wouldn't stop you.

Those that cost $4.95 are still available for free too. It is simply a way for you to download the entire series all together. AND there may be some revisions or new sections in the versions which are for sale. All I did when I built the new pages was copy and paste from the old pages and re-code them. The content is identical to what was there before. But I do add to the manuscript as well as edit and revise it and the I built the for sale versions from the revised document on my harddrive.

A few of the newsletter items are not available because I will be putting them out through the blog and I am not going to send out a bunch at once. I have told subscribers I don't plan to send several emails in a day! I also have to re-code them into the blog, so it's not quite a simple copy and paste.