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#10: July 30, 2010, 06:24:46 PM
Trusting, for you I'll pray for strength, endurance, clarity and comfort. :) Easy and done. :) I'm really sorry you are feeling sad. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I find that sadness usually means something is about to change or just changed (let down) - so look for the lesson you were to learn and embrace the sadness. It can be bittersweet if you learn to love yourself enough.
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Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.  ~Mark Twain

Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast.  ~Marlene Dietrich

The weak can never forgive.  Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.  ~Ghandi

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Re: Prayer Thread
#11: July 30, 2010, 07:11:40 PM
Love this!  Thanks, Marked!  Great idea.

I plan to copy Still's prayer too!   ;)
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Re: Prayer Thread
#12: August 01, 2010, 10:51:20 AM
Please pray for God's Will to ALWAYS be done in my life, the life of our son, and the life of my husband...that is my prayer request; for it is HIS WILL, and not mine that is most important.

I am and will continue praying for you all in this same fashion....God knows the needs and the hearts, and already knows what's ahead.

I'm still on a break, but this thread caught my eye, and for good reason. :) 

What follows is food for thought.  :)

This is a gentle reminder that as long as God comes first, all else will fall into place as He Wills it.

The prayer requests are all good ones; you are praying for marriage restoration, your spouses to come through the tunnel, and you're praying for yourselves.

Yet, the MOST important component is missing...where is the prayer for God's Will to be done in each and every life that you are praying for, including your own?

While He does look at each individual's will in regards to what is being asked for, and hears every prayer sent up, He also looks to see how it falls in line with HIS WILL.

HIS WILL is what will prevail in whatever situation stands, and you need to accept that this comes before yours, as you submit your requests to the Father.

While praying for myself and others, it was and is always prayed that HIS WILL be done in all circumstances, not my will.  The Lord's Prayer is evidence of this; as it states clearly:  "Thy Kingdom come THY WILL BE DONE; on earth, as it is in Heaven".

Something else to think about...all the possibilities must be faced and accepted in regards to this crisis, as well as understanding that some prayers are not and will not be answered because God knows what is ahead at ALL times; and people are still allowed to exercise free will that was given to ALL people as a gift.

He instructed me to pray that He would work within my husband's heart, as what is within the heart, the mind will usually follow; God will NOT tamper with the mind at all, that would be against His gift of free will...but nothing could keep Him from working within the heart of a person.

I prayed, also for Him to work within other people's hearts, and I saw those prayers answered most of the time, unless the heart I was praying for was hard as a rock...but it takes time for God to break through..and He does this in His time, just as it takes His time to answer prayers, if it is HIS WILL to do so.

Not to dash anyone's hopes, but I didn't always get positive answers to every one of my prayers, and I had to accept that with an open heart, knowing that He knows all things, and I do not. 

Later, when hindsight became 20/20, I realized that if I'd gotten what I THOUGHT I wanted, in regards to praying for my husband, it wouldn't have been good for me, as at times I was praying out of ignorance, so, I thanked the Lord for always watching out after me, and NOT answering some of the prayers I prayed for my husband during his MLC.

Never forget to ask for His Will to be done; understanding that His Will will always supercede all, and even though it seems that things are bleak, always remember God is STILL God, and He is STILL working within the situation, behind the scenes, unseen, but not unfelt.  :)

Much love to all,
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Re: Prayer Thread
#13: August 01, 2010, 11:03:08 AM
HB-
  Point taken, Thanks.

  I will add GOD's WILL to my prayers.
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Re: Prayer Thread
#14: August 01, 2010, 08:32:38 PM
Thanks for the reminder, HB. I guess I just assumed that everyone starts and ends the supplications they make with including "if it's within Your Will" - it's an understood part of the process in my mind.

You're absolutely right in that sometimes we want things that are not good for us, and the best thing we can do is ask for His Will be done. We always know that His Will for our lives will ALWAYS be in OUR best interests. Can't go wrong, as the saying goes. :) LOL

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Re: Prayer Thread
#15: August 07, 2010, 06:50:38 PM
I've been praying the same prayers for a week now. Anyone want to change theirs up? Mine stays the same, I pray for my H's salvation. He needs it. He's so lost.
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Re: Prayer Thread
#16: August 07, 2010, 08:06:36 PM
Thanks for the prayers, M&H.  I have pulled myself up out of the negative place I was last weekend.  I would like to change my prayer request. I do love Still's prayer on this thread.:)  I am quite certain God is speaking to my husband (something I have been praying for all along, that He would be relentless in speaking to him).  I pray that my H would listen to God's voice and choose to obey. 

Thanks!
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Re: Prayer Thread
#17: August 07, 2010, 08:10:55 PM
Glad to hear it Trusting. I worried about you. Then again, I worry about myself... but for different reasons. LOL.

I LOVE that. Relentless in speaking to him. I've said the prayer for you.

I was listening to someone who said she anointed her H's shoes and bed with anointing oil and asked God to send his ministering angels to be by her H's side always as he slept and as he traveled around during the day. I thought that was brilliant.
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Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.  ~Mark Twain

Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast.  ~Marlene Dietrich

The weak can never forgive.  Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.  ~Ghandi

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Re: Prayer Thread
#18: August 07, 2010, 08:20:20 PM
That's great - that annointing!  I have prayed a "princess and the pea" prayer over the couch my H sleeps on - that it will get increasingly more and more uncomfortable for him. :)

I was having a tough time last weekend because I opted out of getting together with some of my dearest and oldest friends last weekend mostly because I didn't think I would be able to hold myself together.  One knows what is going and another has an inkling but the rest have no clue.  I was in a bad, bad place because i was mourning what I was missing and blaming my H all over again since his MLC is why I wasn't there.  I had to get over myself.  I am better now with renewed resolve. :)
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Re: Prayer Thread
#19: August 08, 2010, 01:53:37 PM
My dear friends, can I ask you to please say a prayer for my neighbor, Sally.  Her husband died today after a very short battle with cancer.  She is a wonderful person; always there with a smile and a kind word.  She is extremely sad over her husband's passing and I ask that you say a little prayer for her that she finds peace.

Thank you everyone.

Xoxoxo
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