The main thing to remember through all of this is that their unhappiness is ONLY due to US, and WE are the cause, so must be made to suffer AT ALL COSTS, AT ALL TIMES!!
Even if they leave and maybe realize it wasn't us, within seconds, they will create a situation in that overloaded head of theirs, that will once again, bring the blame back to the loving LBS.
My H is now hundreds of miles away, thankfully, and I can guarantee that anything that is going wrong in his life, maybe OW put too much cream in his coffee this morning, poor baby, and she would not have done that if it wasn't for ME!
He did tell me that he told OW just how bad things were for him when he lived here.
That proves it, I'm the terrible, terrible person he professes me to be. Oh, and guess what H? "DON'T CARE!!"
Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.
Albert Einstein