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#50: November 06, 2013, 08:21:04 AM
The main thing to remember through all of this is that their unhappiness is ONLY due to US, and WE are the cause, so must be made to suffer AT ALL COSTS, AT ALL TIMES!!

Even if they leave and maybe realize it wasn't us, within seconds, they will create a situation in that overloaded head of theirs, that will once again, bring the blame back to the loving LBS. 

My H is now hundreds of miles away, thankfully, and I can guarantee that anything that is going wrong in his life, maybe OW put too much cream in his coffee this morning, poor baby, and she would not have done that if it wasn't for ME!

He did tell me that he told OW just how bad things were for him when he lived here. ::) ;D  That proves it, I'm the terrible, terrible person he professes me to be.  Oh, and  guess what H?  "DON'T CARE!!" ;D
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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#51: November 06, 2013, 08:58:47 AM
If you are the epitome of BAD, I dread to think what life is like when you are GOOD  ;D 
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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#52: November 06, 2013, 02:42:44 PM
We are such bad partners ...  ;)
I'd leave me too , fancy me cooking , cleaning, been a great loving wife . I should be shot for that outrageous behaviour ..
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#53: November 06, 2013, 02:47:25 PM
Yep- me to and I homeschooled the kids..WHAT A b!tc#! Kick her ass out she's definitely NO GOOD!
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Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.

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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#54: November 06, 2013, 03:27:12 PM
So the D is over and I´m mighty tempted to send him echarle´s guide for dummies. Has anyone sent the link? Response?
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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#55: November 06, 2013, 07:10:03 PM
FTT - I didn't look at it, but if it the one I'm thinking of, where it just hits home and is so accurate a description more through the eyes of the LBS, it is quite funny.  Saw it on here a while back on some thread too.  Not sure he would even get it?  I think we can relate as it is so true, but for them?  Might be a case of  :o :o ::) ???  Not a clue.   Then again, I don't have a clue about any of this stuff either. ;)
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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#56: November 06, 2013, 09:18:31 PM
We are such bad partners ...  ;)
I'd leave me too , fancy me cooking , cleaning, been a great loving wife . I should be shot for that outrageous behaviour ..

Yep- me to and I homeschooled the kids..WHAT A b*tch! Kick her ass out she's definitely NO GOOD!


You guys are hilarious!
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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#57: November 07, 2013, 01:54:27 AM
Well after a while it's just WTF!!!

And you just have to laugh or you'll be friggin nuts just like them! ;D ;D ;D ;D
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.

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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#58: November 07, 2013, 02:49:57 AM
hey forthetrees

Yep i sent it to my h in the beginging ( bad move) but sent again this year to my h and his family

his family though i had written it as it was just like him pmsl
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Re: MLC for Dummies - Tips, Tricks, and Total Fails
#59: November 07, 2013, 03:36:41 PM
How did they react? Did they see the dark humor? Did they see the harsh reality?
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