JKM, I WISH I had someone to share these animated videos with!! The closest I could come would be with my BEST friend, but even she is not really interested in MLC as a "pass" for bad behavior... even though she's been having affairs for years - not to excuse, but I know her husband, and while he's a wonderful man in many ways, he's SO detached from her he's practically a corpse and she endures a LOT of indifference and invisibility... very sad and I do know that she has done much over the years to try and promote a real marriage. Again, I think you can understand that infidelity is NOT acceptable to me, but her life is hers to live and she is very aware and I trust her to figure her issues out like she always does.
So, no one to share these with that would be able to laugh about it... they all pretty much think I'm either delusional, or a doormat but would never say it to me, LOL! I feel certain that, once again in my life, I will show them that I actually DO know best for me and many times I've heard confessions that they couldn't believe my strength and intuition in the end. But still, I love these videos!! No one can know what the affair dynamics are like unless they've been in our shoes...