[In this for ME]

Wow I guess I shouldn't go back to sleep once I wake up I haven't had a bad dream since this mess started.

My girls were a little smaller than they are now in the dream and we were in a really run down section of some city. I was meeting ExH there for some kind of appt.

 I get in the room and there's two other guys sitting there, more like advisors, not lawyers and everything my exh said they were giving justification to. And he was there and SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO arrogant

He was talking about one time how he was on the back property of our house and how he had sex with some girl that had been hiking through. The guys were like "Alright! Good job!!"

I took him face in my hands and told him how much I hated him. He told me the same and kind of rolled his eyes.

I told him to say goodbye to his children as he would never be seeing them again and he didn't really listen. As I left he was trying to walk down the street and talk to me and I told him I no longer will be talking to him anymore and he shrugged his shoulders and walked ahead of the girls and I.

As I was walking the sidewalk turned into a rundown parapet and I stood on the edge with the gilrs looking over a rusty railing and knew I had to turn around because I could feel it moving. Then I woke up
Not sure what triggered this as the closing is today on ow house and with any luck she'll get all her crap out by the weekend and then everyone can start to heal.

[DCD]

i used to dream of my h finally admitting that he was in love with someone else - this was all before BD and separation. since we separated 3 months ago, i hadn't had one dream about him until last week.  i dreamt that he came through the front door very early one morning with his bag and a huge bouquet of flowers....but wearing that dumb ball cap backwards on his head - which, i think, pretty much sums up where we are at...nice idea but most definitely not ready yet!

[justkeepmoving]

I'm so glad someone posted about dreams today because I was awoken this morning by a doozy!!
I had a dream that my H told me that him and his OW wanted to take our D to Paris for graduation.  She became unglued and tried to stab him with a knife (very scary !!).  We were all in the bathroom and I tried to get between him and her and he stumbled and fell all the way into the toilet and went down into the sewer.  I rushed out back to see if he was okay and saw him coming out of the sewer drain.  I got scared and got in my car and drove off.
Okay all you dream analyists what do you think it means that my H was flushed down a toilet ?  Maybe a little wishful thinking on my part !!

[mercury]

JKM -- I think I would love to have a dream where he was flushed down the toilet.  It is quite funny.  I'm not good a dream analyzing but I'd go with you think he is a turd.  Sorry  couldn't help myself, please forgive me for that one.   

[DCD]

I'm not good a dream analyzing but I'd go with you think he is a turd.

*snort*

yup - i think it's pretty clear!!

[justkeepmoving]

Hey gals, thanks for the laugh I sure needed that !!  Yup he's a big turd.  I guess I just wish that I could flush the whole darn nightmare down the toilet.  But unfortunately I'll get is backed up sludge !!

[Still]

Strange dream last night.

I was looking through a photo album. There were all these pictures of my kids and my H. Many of all of us together. The album was organized by date. When I hit 2008 (when MLC began) there were no more pictures. In the dream I felt really saddened that my life seemed to stop at that point. I set the album down and noticed there were some pictures in the back. The back of the album seemed to pick up after this particular part of my life. There were pictures of my children, but they were much older than they are. The most significant part was that they were all smiling in the pictures.

Oddly, mixed in with my pictures were pictures of Voyager from the Alt site. I think that was just a fluke as I don't think V is joining my family.

[In this for ME]

Glad this thread came up again..
I've had very few dreams ; the one last night was strange.
I was in some house somewhere but I know I was a drive away from where I wanted to be and I had an urgency to get to ExH for some reason and it was pouring rain outside..

I was taking care of whatever I needed to in this house..lots of nice old items but dated like from a long time ago.

 I looked up rain as I have never had a dream with rain in it before:
To see and hear rain falling, symbolizes forgiveness and grace.
Falling rain is also a metaphor for tears, crying and sadness.

[Still]

looked up rain as I have never had a dream with rain in it before:
To see and hear rain falling, symbolizes forgiveness and grace.
Falling rain is also a metaphor for tears, crying and sadness.

Interesting, ITFTLH.

What does your book say about "Voyager" in your dreams?

[In this for ME]

Voyager- let's see.....it says.
Is a strong formidable woman who when angry will crown herself with a viking helmet and kick butt.
If you dream of this person wearing this item AVOID HER AT ALL COSTS IN REALITY.