[FindingJules]

Interesting talk on dreams...I have had MANY dreams that I am making love to H.  I know that seems obvious...but those weren't the dreams I had when I was married to him!!  I remember having dreams that I would be hooking up with an old b'friend and would go tell my H that I was doing that and he'd say something like - okay, I'll watch the kids or ok, I'll go with you.

So now, the dreams about making love to H - typically on the floor of some place I don't know where it is - are very vivid and so happy and he is really looking right at me.  It's weird.  Try to not think about it too much.

[ember]

I had a dream about my exH last weekend; it was the first one I have had about him in about a year and a half.  In the dream, he had come to my new house in regards to something about the kids. At one point he cornered me in the kitchen and was trying to get all lovey dovey with me, which was what he would sometimes do when we had big fight when we were still together. In the dream I was trying to avoid him but remain polite. When he actually pressed his body up against mine and said something like, "you know how good we were, lets try again". I looked him straight in the eye and said ever so sweetly and sexy, "not of you were the last man on the planet" and walked away.  In the dream, however, I felt the weakening in the knees that I used to get around him. It was almost like I had to get away, or there was a chance that I would cave in. I thought about that dream for the whole weekend, trying to figure out what it meant about my true feelings for my exH. I still dont know. 

[BirdSoul]

I dream of my exH a lot. Also of OW, who I am mostly trying to harm.

[LittleDragonfly]

Ha edited to had whats with the the mouth on the back of a dog lol.........and the barbie doll one........sure tell you were dreaming there more look freaking CHUCKIE  xxxxx

Seriously have no idea about the dog one! I watching any horror movie or anything like that.  maybe it's my mind saying my life is a nightmare of its own?

  about Chucky. Oh geez, that scared me silly as a kid. No, it was just a Barbie doll. Actually,maybe an imitation Barbie doll.. You know, those low quality types!! Fakes and all.

[Wed2Him?Whatever.]

Had another dream involving my H, and I certainly hope it will not turn into a trend.

I was at home and a new neighbor (male, good-looking) came over for a visit.  We were flirting and even hanging out in the bedroom, and I kept mentioning how my husband was going to soon be home at any minute.  Finally my husband did come home.  He was like he was in the post-BD days, dead eyes, little eye contact, only short answers, etc.  Anyway, he looked at the stranger in the bedroom, and didn't acknowledge him.  Went on about his business as if the guy wasn't there.  So, I'm thinking this dream speaks to my sadness that, were I to "move on" to some new relationship my H wouldn't bat an eye.  Is it wrong to wish he'd FEEL SOMETHING?!

[Stronger]

I think the one and only dream I had was my H wanted me to rescue him from OW... she wouldn't leave him alone and he wanted to come home. I really don't dream much it's strange not sure why and I usually don't remember details. I only think I dreamt this was because my H actually said he wanted to come home and he wanted me to be at his apt when she came in 2 days . By noon the next day he changed his mind and he's been with her every since that was in Feb.of course after I ,emtioned him getting help for his drinking.

[Ready2Transform]

After Hoss first left I had a dream where he was standing in front of an open window, towering over me, yelling that there was nothing else he needed to tell me.  I got into a car with a gun.  I was reading "Steering by Starlight" by Martha Beck then, and there's a great section on dream interpretation (not airy fairy, very psychology based) where I sort of symbolically interpreted that the open window was the freedom that was beyond grasp, his yelling and denials made me feel very small, and that the gun gave me some power, a voice in the situation.

I haven't had a ton of dreams of him since.  More recently than not.  Sometimes I tell him things about MLC and he says he gets it.   There was one where we reunited but then he was trying to bring OW in the back door of a house.  The last one was last week we were literally on a rollercoaster together and I was enjoying it (I don't like those sorts of things), but after the ride he wanted to go again and I was like, "No way - once was enough."      I don't think I need a book to interpret that one!

[FindingJules]

The last one was last week we were literally on a rollercoaster together and I was enjoying it (I don't like those sorts of things), but after the ride he wanted to go again and I was like, "No way - once was enough."       I don't think I need a book to interpret that one!

Amen Sister!  I've got that interpretation down pat!

[LearningIamOk]

I don't really dream of H anymore. This past weekend I dreamed I saw 6 tornadoes heading toward my home. I ran into the basement with all the kids, I think H was there and my dog who passed away 9 yrs ago. I saw one tornado right up against a basement window and it cracked, but didn't break.

The other tornadoes were bearing down on the house, but after they past, my house was fine and my neighbor's was gone.

If anyone has any ideas about this, I'd love to hear them.

[ascending]

this is interesting. i post most of my dreams in my threads but the most dreams that i have had have been about people from like highschool etc that i have had a crush on or that were fleeting boyfriends. its like we get to have do overs. getting closures or dates with old boyfriends, my crush finally making the first move.

anyone know what all this is about, lol.