Bless him. He is beyond pain now! And even in his passing, he touched so many lives and did so much good.
T, I sometimes bring up your sitch to my dad. I have a brother three years older than me who only lived 14 hours. My dad was the only person beyond the hospital staff who spent time with him in his lifetime. It's a grieving that never stops, and I know my life has always been touched in some way by that little baby (who I now see as a very sarcastic but supportive big brother that would be kicking the snot out of Hoss!). But I have seen my dad grow into an acceptance that is more at peace, as we celebrate a life that truly was, and still is. We are not given the blessing of having them in our physical lives to build memories with, but know she has never left either of your sides, especially through this struggle. I hope I haven't overstepped by saying that, but I want to encourage you. God bless all of you who have lost children.