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Don’t think Tiger Wood had a MLC. He just cheated a lot. Fame, running adrenaline, lots of money and bad behaviour. Not everyone that cheats and wants back is having a MLC.

Smart her. If I ever was going to take a guy like Woods back I would have that cheating clause with a huge amount of money as well. Even if I don’t know why she wants him back. Prestige and more money because she is Tiger Wood's wife?...
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I like that clause...I should have thought of that before I got back together with my H ;D  Of course I don't think my H has $350 million.

My dad brought this up to me earlier, and though the chances of Hoss even having $350 at this point seems like a pipe dream, if he ever does come out of MLC and want to reconcile, I might have an "adultery clause" document drawn up about any mutual debt we may still be carrying at the time of reconciliation defaulting to him under certain circumstances.  Weird, yep, but enough to scare 'em? ;)
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Oh yes, and adultery clause is for certain as far as I'm concerned. And it will say in case of such thing all my expenses and needs will be covered. And I'm not shy of putting and amount to it as well.

That is the thing, after this stuff they no longer have our full trust and we're not the innocent people we were.
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I LOVE the idea of making the cheating spouse pay all the joint debt if they are caughting cheatig again.  ;D
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She's a smart woman - and definitely something for us all to consider. 
Wondering - I'm sure you could come to some sort of an agreement retrospectively  ;)
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I LOVE the idea of making the cheating spouse pay all the joint debt if they are caughting cheatig again.  ;D

I like that as well and I think it is possible to arrange some clause like that.
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If I had to guess, I doubt Tiger had a midlife crisis.  He evidently had multiple partners, but that is not symptomatic of MLC.  I don't think Tiger was trying to leave his marriage.

I don't think Tiger had MLC any more than I think Magic Johnson did.
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Regardless of the reason for Tiger's infidelities.... he still "affaired down". I don't think he was trying to leave his marrige MLC style either... he just liked the ATTENTION he got from the extra women.... at home, he still had to take out the trash. I think Men are often insecure about what their wives think of them... after all, we see their dirty underwear... their stupid habits, etc. OW on the side only see "Mr. Perfect Hero" and even my husband's ow must have thought he had money in the beginning... after all, he traveled the country on busines... had an Amex card to take her out to dinner on.... was able to support a family PLUS a girlfriend, hahahaha!! He was available to "fix" her life, but in the end, all he does is CRITICIZE her for "not having a pot to piss in" and for lying to him about her salary, etc.

So, back to Tiger Woods..... once Elin divorced him, he was "available" and probably partied plenty, and there were plenty of women to fawn all over him... BUT, who do you turn to when you want to have a REAL conversation? That's right.... a REAL woman who used to love you, flaws and all.... not someone who loves your for your fame or money!! Also, once they were divorced Elin held ALL the cards.... after all, she has the kids not to mention PUBLIC OPINION in support of her!!! So, what if she decided to "test" Tiger's sincerity... you know... like "Well, this all sounds so romantic and all, but what are YOU willing to do for ME, to prove the alley cat behavior is over????" and perhaps naming an outrageous price... well, you know men don't like handing over their money now do they???? Perhaps, if it was her idea... the amount would be enough to effectively ruin him financially, ya know? Or maybe (if it was her idea) she felt she needed to make this demand so the public would support her if she took him back?

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Tiger and Obama played golf together on Sunday in Florida.
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My initial reaction was of hope.  I hope Tiger has changed internally.  If he is really sincere and she can forgive, it may have a big impact on forgiveness and second chances as it is such a high profile couple. 
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