I just wanted to add that I really like this forum as well. RCR, I have looked forward to each newsletter you send out since I started receiving them a few months back. For me, I really need to understand MLC, not just try to survive living with someone going through it. It has certainly helped me with patience and being understanding.
I also agree with HB about this forum seeming to be more "peaceful" than others, and I like the vibe here a lot better.