[Filled with faith and hope]

So in order to be perfect wives we must be dirty, understand the importance of porn, not cook, eat at McDonalds and not try to save the world. My what high standards these MLCers have...

LOL. Where is the LIKE  button for this idiocacy?

[CallanG]

As sad as it is these gave me a chuckle.

I got the classic "she listened to me "  and " in my head I had decided that you did not love me "

I should have recorded some of the conversations and play them back to him in years to come .

[kikki]

She (OW) makes me feel safe (he barely knew her)

The kids will be fine with me leaving

[crazyjourney]

I have spent a zillion years trying to be good by and for everyone else.

I want a chance to be happy for me,sorry if that is selfish but I actually think we will get on better.

The passion has gone and you killed it.

There is no one else and I am certainly not running away, but I need my own space and place.

I cant, dont want and will not disappear from your life at all, but I am ready for a new chapter and I know that is totally selfish, but I really crave to find happiness on my own.

Hmm so why did ow turn up so quickly h ?

Well he said he was lonely and maybe she is an escape.

Enjoy x  AAAArgh!!

[superdog]

H- you are soooo controlling.
Me: how did I ever cotrol you?
H you totally controlled me with your face.

I have tried making controlling faces to others and I don't seem to work on them. Geez me and my face could rule the world!

Don't forget we have nothing in common and never have. Ow is just a female version of me. Too right losers of a feather stick together.

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[DCD]

'It is what it is'

Ughhh!  Husband used that on me quite a few times.  I finally responded with "no! It is what YOU made it!". Haven't heard it since

[toughtimes]

It's a crime to the universe to be this unhappy

You never asked me about my ideas, never asked me where my ideas came from

Ow is not adultery, it happened after I left you (told me he's leaving Saturday, watching Before Sunrise to 'steal his nerves' Sunday night. Monday she sends an email staing which movie she wants to go and see at the cinema that night!

I'm not leaving the kids I'm leaving you

Oh I could go on ....

Love the dogs too fat one and what a total rubbish wife you were cooking too much and super dog, how dare you control your H with your face! I got something similar, about the looks I wounded him with.

Think this one breaks from script as I haven't heard anyone bust this one out:

Me: if you've been so unhappy for the past ten years why did we have two kids, but a flat, get married?

H: I don't know Stockholm Syndrome?

And;

You stopped me from flying in an aeroplane, I was so unhappy with you for 14 years I never bothered to tackle my fear of flying. (Forget the fact that in order to get funding for his business he had to fly to America to see fund raisers, which incidentally never happened because his business has not reached the dizzy heights he thought it would. He managed a flight to Jersey though, 30 mins flight at a cost 2,500 if we factor in the hypnotherapy )

This thread is brilliant to remind us IT IS DEFINITELY MLC!

[alwayshope]

'Its time for me to be happy!!!  I'm tired of doing everything for everybody else!!!'

[toughtimes]

I need to go away and fix myself, and I want to do that alone (or with the 23 year old intern I'm shagging)

I'm changing, I'm becoming the man I always should have been

[alwayshope]

I did not leave the children.