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#50: May 09, 2013, 06:04:57 AM

We are bad for each other ::)

I've been unhappy for years....2yrs ???.....No 10yrs ???...... :o

You wouldn't go to the "shop" with me.....(this one always makes me fall about laughing ;D)

If I hadn't left you....you wouldn't have started your business.....(ooo well I guess I must be thankful then....haha::))

I didn't leave the boys....I left you....(Whatever Mr P ::))

I didn't feel wanted...(I did everything apart from wipe his butt....no idea why he didn't feel wanted ...and he couldn't tell me either :o)

Myself and OW have an equal relationship......(where's the vomit emoticon)

I have left my baggage from our marriage behind.....(trust me...he's taken all that baggage with him ::)....)

You never listened to me....(Mr P is passive aggressive.... :-X [I upset him....he didn't speak to me for a week...no idea what I'd done....he never told me...even tho I asked....this occurred 3yrs prior to BD)

I almost feel hate for you... :-[....ouch that hurt!


I feel like I'm in a tunnel and I can't find my way out....and I can't find poppy....even tho I've looked I can't find her...or the love I felt for her....it's just gone....disappeared. (This made me so very sad.... :-[)


I'm happier now than I can ever remember being.....(ouch again)


I could fill the thread so I'll stop now :-)

Hugs ....pops xxx

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Re: MLC script
#51: May 09, 2013, 06:15:16 AM
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H- you are soooo controlling.
Me: how did I ever cotrol you?
H you totally controlled me with your face.

I have tried making controlling faces to others and I don't seem to work on them. Geez me and my face could rule the world!

Thank you Superdog....I am laughing so hard over this one!

Loving this discussion...it's eerie how men who have never met one another to compare notes, can come up with the same BS. Honestly....how does a sickness like MLC invoke the same craziness...right down to the same lame excuses and selfish justifications?

I've heard almost ALL of these comments!...including " I never should have married you"...."I was unhappy for 22 years but I faked it" and " I never left you because of OW".

I was also told I was "not a good person" and "didn't bake him pies".

You can't make this stuff up.   ::)
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Re: MLC script
#52: May 09, 2013, 07:35:24 AM
You suck the life out of me.

OW makes me feel sane.

I know OW is a fantasy ...

OW just sits and admires me.
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Re: MLC script
#53: May 09, 2013, 07:45:11 AM
I didn't tell you (about the affair) because I didn't want to hurt your feelings.
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Re: MLC script
#54: May 09, 2013, 07:55:37 AM
That made me smile.

I got "I didn't tell you because you'd be angry". 

Oh, and most of the rest that everyone else has said. 
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Re: MLC script
#55: May 09, 2013, 08:12:34 AM
I don't even know how long it's going to last.  (The affair)

You don't mind if I still sleep in the bed, do you?

Her husband bought some of the wrong brands of foods so I brought them here for you.

I've only returned home for the dog. 

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Re: MLC script
#56: May 09, 2013, 08:28:24 AM
The kids will be fine, they will always have my attention!

I am never coming home.

We have become like brother and sister.

I will always love you, that is forever.

The kids are much happier now that I am happier.

I like you.

There is no more love [between us]

I am sorry I sounded agressive.

I don't need to to do grocery shopping, OW does it and pays for it. ::) ::)
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Re: MLC script
#57: May 09, 2013, 08:31:56 AM
This is a strange time in our lives ( with goofy, exuberant look on his )

Just give me a year or two.

You're not the boss of me  ;D  ;D

I will be a  better dad.

Give me a couple of weeks and the kids will be just fine.

I know that I belong at home with my family... Just not yet.

You're the love of my life but men weren't meant to be with one partner for life. We're biologically programmed to pass our seed around.  :o :o (I swear he used to be an intelligent evolved man)

Im a happy go lucky kind of guy  (so not true) You're too intelligent. I don't want that anymore.

Wow, this is therapeutic !
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Re: MLC script
#58: May 09, 2013, 08:34:00 AM
'It is what it is'

Ughhh!  Husband used that on me quite a few times.  I finally responded with "no! It is what YOU made it!". Haven't heard it since ::)

OMG every time he says that I want to kill him .

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Re: MLC script
#59: May 09, 2013, 08:36:08 AM
" Fine " was a word he used a lot . Every time I tried to talk to him in the last year he just said I am fine , everytime I asked if he no longer loved he just said I am fine . Everytime he shut me out he sais he was fine. Then had the nerve to say I had not listened to him .

Now when he asks how I am I just say I am fine !!!
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