[Shadow7]

'It is what it is'

Yes!  Tired of this one. 

Pretty much all of the above.  The one about the dog being too fat gave me a great chuckle!

I need to be alone.

This didn't happen because of OW.  This happened because I have been unhappy since we got married.

We have nothing in common.

Very script.   

[CallanG]

 
I just remembered one while posting on my thread .

" the dog did not like him"


The dog likes anyone he a labrador he gets excited if I say hello to him .

[Ready2Transform]

I also got "I'M NOT COMING BACK!" and "It is what it is".  So reaffirming to see so many others with those too, as the former was particularly traumatic when he did it.

Also remembered:

"We will come out of this the people we were meant to be."

"How could I be happy with you?"

"If it makes you feel better, he (OW's H) has found someone else too."  I have no idea why that was supposed to make me feel better.  It was followed by "So OW has had all of that to deal with and work through."  Poor her!!

[Wed2Him?Whatever.]

"God killed our cat!"

He was saying this in an accusatory tone toward me since I believe in God, and he apparently was intending to infer God and I were in cahoots to give our cat cancer.

Within about a mere half hour or so of this declaration, he was telling me the folks back in his hometown needed God... "I'll make it my mission to bring God to them."

Did I mention after MLC started he ignored our cat, and wasn't so nice toward her?

Guess he had decided she was too fat.  ROFL.

[French Belier]

I haven't loved you for 10 years but was too lazy to do anything about it.

It's your fault- you pushed me away (2 months after my cancer treatment ended).

It's a shame you can't meet her - she is pretty and fun and is sorry this has happened (OW 38, H66 Me 65 with chemo hair).
I am sad to say I replied "I would love to meet her -  I would.......!!!"

I don't know, I don't know, I don't know

You are looking after my dog, aren't you?  There seems to be a doggy theme everywhere!

The scripts are so similar, no matter where we live.  It's unreal.  I have many others posted here.

Take care all of you

French Belier

[Phoenix]

And let's not forget MLC script with the children.  Here are some lovely items D wrote down when they occured, because she needed time to figure out what H meant. She decided he was not "stable."

To D (then 13) when she was sobbing and begging him to get help, stop the adultery, and save our family: 

"(OW) cares so much about you. Can't you see that?" 

To D's refusal to be around H and OW: "Can't you be normal and healthy like OW's kids? (D came through brilliantly. OW's son called her a $l()t and ran away from home, her D13 began cutting herself, developed an eating disorder and is on antidepressants, and the 8-year-old went back to sucking her thumb nonstop and wouldn't talk. Darn! If D would just get herself together and be healthy like that!  )

"You need to grow up and have some class." (As opposed to 47 year old OW having sex with her friend's H in her family's minivan).

"You are too young to have opinions and high morals." (apparently he is still too young to have high morals)
 
"You will understand as soon as you fall in love with your first married man." (WTH!  What a goal for a dad to have for his daughter--idiot)

And the last conversation they had before he moved out with no goodbye or forwarding address: 
H:  You are just like your mother.
D: Thank you. That is the greatest compliment anyone can give me.
H: Smart @ss.  (I wish I had been present to respond to H: Dumb @ss)
D: You always told me you loved me, because I am like mom and you love her so much.
H: I don't know who was talking. (Uh...it was you, H!)
H continuing: (going on a tirade about his rewriting of our marital and family history)
D: What are you talking about? I live here. These are my memories too and none of it happened like you say it did.
H: You have had some sort of breakdown. You are mental and don't remember anything the way it was. (PROJECTING)
D: How can you leave me?
H: I am not leaving you. I am leaving your mother.
D: You are leaving and betraying me too.
H:Where do you get this crazy stuff? You aren't dealing with reality. 
H continuing: Why are you whining? You had 13 good years. That is more than I ever had. (Way to want a good life for D, dad!)
D: How could you and (OW) do this to mom, (OW's H), her kids, me, and our whole social group? How could you not know this would destroy everyone?
H (smiling crazily): We did know and we did it anyway.
D:  Do you even love me at all?
H: (Pausing to think for a long time) "Well... I care about you." (Sound of the final nail being hammered into the coffin of their relationship, echos loudly...)

[toughtimes]

Ow is just a distraction

Other people say they fancy people at work but don't do anything about it, I want to do something about it

You never know, we might get back together in a couple of years time, you know we can date other people and if it feels right we might get back together. I'm not making any promises or giving you false hope, you just never know what's going to happen.

JUST WONDERING WHY I AM STANDING REMEMBERING ALL THESE NASTY CORKERS!

[crazyjourney]

I also got the tunnel one

I feel like I am in a tunnel working my way through and when I get to the end there will be time for me.

And the I left you not the boys.

Told his mam our marriage was like a slow death and also told her people get back together all the time after 5yrs/2yrs.

I can laugh now but at the time in the beginning your jaw just drops doesnt it.

He also said to his mam he didnt think he wanted to go back, she told him oh she wont take you back now.

[I believe in angels]

Hi, I got most of the above as well.  Funny now when I think about them

My personal favourite was when my h looked at me and said I was the one in denial.  AS you can imagine I did not have a clue what he was talking about and when asked neither did he.

So script.  Even when I hear others stories in people I meet, they say exactly the same thing. very strange.

[Faithfully Yours]

Oh I so needed this today!!! I got the following. Multiple times.

1.)   You micromanaged me.
2.)   You were too controlling (FOR NOT BEING COMFORTABLE WITH HIM TEXTING, CALLING AND GOING OUT WITH FEMALE COWORKERS AND CLASSMATES).
3.)   We just aren't compatible.
4.)   We have so much in common (ABOUT OW).
5.)   OW and I get a long (I GOT THIS ONE CONSTANTLY).
6.)   Kids will be so much better off.
7.)   It's my time now. It's time to think about me (WHEN ASKED IF HE THOUGHT ABOUT HOW ANY OF THIS AFFECTED ME).
8.)   Stop making me feel guilty (THIS IS MY FAVORITE).
9.)   You need to be with someone who likes to stay home (HUH, WE STAYED HOME ALL THE TIME BECAUSE WE WERE BROKE BECAUSE H DIDN'T WORK).
10).  I didn't appreciate him.
11.) I did nothing around the house, he did it all (HUH, HE DIDN'T WORK! I WORKED FULL-TIME AND WENT TO GRADUATE SCHOOL FULL-TIME).
12.) OW adores her kids, is a hardworker and we have fun together (WHY DO I GIVE A CRAP THAT SHE IS A HARD-WORKER?).

Oh I have loved this. So therapeutic. LOL.