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#80: May 09, 2013, 03:07:00 PM
Ok, ok here are some more.


You've already been through one divorce so you are used to it.

I've been through it myself so I know how you feel.

I'm not leaving S10, only you. (uh, he lives here how is that not leaving him?)

I still care about you and your Mom. (Really? Then why are you leaving?)
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Re: MLC script
#81: May 09, 2013, 03:15:54 PM
Here are a couple more I have heard.

"You know I am happy right?"

"I am happy and content right now, and OW is the biggest reason for my happiness.". Huh? What about your children?

If he has to prove to me that he is happy, how happy is he? And how sad must it be to let one person be the sole reason for your happiness.
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Re: MLC script
#82: May 09, 2013, 03:25:14 PM
This is scary - I didn't know anything about MLC when it was happening to me and was so confused with the things he kept saying. Now I realise he was following the script. Some of the stuff I got:

"It is what it is" and "we are where we are" every time I attempted to talk about 'our' problems.
"I don't love you like I should" followed by "I don't love you enough" then "I don't love you anymore" and finally "you killed any love I had for you" all within the space of a few weeks.
"I haven't been happy for years"
"I'm doing this for ME" - really??
"I don't want anyone else - I just want to be alone" then walked straight into serious 'relationship' with his secretary (still with her)
"You never had any trouble attracting men - you'll be happy again" ignoring the fact that I was nearing 50 by this time
"You are the most selfish person I've ever known" then days later "you are the most decent person I've ever known" - or was it the other way around ??
"Your behaviour needs to change!!" - shouted at me across the hall (I never did find out what 'behaviour' he was referring to)





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Re: MLC script
#83: May 09, 2013, 03:50:19 PM
"I'm TRYING!" (in regards to loving me, staying with me, all in the month between BD and leaving).

"You have the right to see someone else, just don't tell me about it, I'm not ready for that." (After the same conversation where he told me about how hard things are for OW now that her H was seeing someone else!). 
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#84: May 09, 2013, 04:04:21 PM
"I'm TRYING!" (in regards to loving me, staying with me, all in the month between BD and leaving).

"You have the right to see someone else, just don't tell me about it, I'm not ready for that." (After the same conversation where he told me about how hard things are for OW now that her H was seeing someone else!).

OH YEAH!! I got the "I have tried to make it work", but you are sucking the happiness out of me line too. Ugh!
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Re: MLC script
#85: May 09, 2013, 04:13:42 PM
Hi everyone...........
A few wks after BD i learnt of h affair.............at the time he was back home..........i threw him out again........a few days later we met up to talk.....h would not tell me who she was...........so i bought a tracker and put it on his car...........h didn't know how i found o/w address............. anyway i went up early one morning with my friend...........i knew h was there i waited for o/w to take her D to school and went to her house...........i knocked on the door.......then i opened the door to walk in just as h was coming to answer.......he was like  :o :o :o :o and then he ran off upstairs........i calmly walked back to my friends car and we sat and waited outside o/w house............o/w friend saw me and must have texted her...........she would not come home..............then h texted me and said o/w is ringing the police to have you removed............i said OK that's fine ............I'm sure the police will be interested to know why am hear so if she as any sense she will not call them........h begged o/w not to ..............we beeped and drove off.........h must have sneaked out of her other door and was home packing his stuff when i arrived.............later that day i went back up and knocked on her door as h had my keys.........h came to the door when he saw it was me..............o/w shouted through the door you better leave or I'm calling the police...........by this I'm livid i shout back to her whist your ringing the police ring the social security up and explain you have a married man living here and he as been for the last 6 wks (previous to him coming home) o/w slammed the window and stormed off..........SS paid her rent and council tax............so she would have been in big trouble............(and as been caught by the SS since and was taken to court and fined, i didn't need to say anything apparently her neighbour reported her lol) ..........h came home the next day and had the cheek to say to me that i shouldn't have involved o/w she as nothing to do with this :o :o :o............i said so why did she let you in i said, as well as learning to keep her LEGS closed she should learn to keep her door locked to m/m.............

H ...........i told you i would leave if you continued to watch those soaps.....(at the time it was coronation street when Kevin Webster was having an affair.....i didnt know h was at this time

Daughter to h why did you marry mum if you knew then you would not stay together.............he said i put him on the spot by proposing if i wouldn't have asked he wouldn't have married me........the thing is he proposed to me twice before i accepted............i accepted through a proposal in the local paper on his dads memorial so we could mark this day............the newspaper followed us from the wedding through to our honey moon i still have the cork from the champagne he bought and the newspaper articles..........when he proposed he did in front of a room full of relatives.........when i called him on it he denied saying anything to D.....

H you would like o/w if you got to know her...........i looked :o :o >:( at h and said you what........he said shes just like you when you was her age...........i was fuming, i started throwing potatoes and anything else i could get my hands on this was said whilst we unloading shopping from the car, i laugh now when i recall h chasing the food down the street)........... i was shouting when i was her age........i was not sleeping with married men..............i was not called the town bike............and lastly i was not a owr ............H i didn't mean that i meant personality wise, you know what i mean no need to be nasty...........i said open your eyes your making yourself the laughing stock..........i said you go on like shes perfect............he said well she is to me......that's when i through the cabbage and hit is head and it rolled down the street..............

I didn't make his coffee right........now if he calls i make exactly how Ive always made it.........and always ask is that OK..............never one complaint lol.............

He said i too was too controlling............i said NO h...........i said what you call controlling is me is/was supporting you...........if i was controlling i would be like o/w with a doglead around your neck.............i said you had freedom to do what you wanted because i trusted you..........you abused that trust............and now o/w is controlling you because she knows your a cheat and doesn't trust you

I didn't leave the kids just you

In the past when i would truth dart him..............he would reply and say i thought you had changed obviously not...........me why do i need to change all i do is tell the truth........so now you want me to become a liar just like you

We were once having a texting WAR ............and he called me a name cant even remember what it was ...........but i remember texting back WHOOPS check your phone me thinks its confusing me for your owr..........no reply to that one


Ive plenty more but think Ive typed too much already lol............


When i look back its crazy but back then i was so hurt...............if someone would have said to me you will be laughing about all this one day i would have been like  :o :o :o but I'm not I'm  ;D ;D ;D ::) ::) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


 
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Re: MLC script
#86: May 09, 2013, 04:18:49 PM
OMG the potatoes and cabbage!!!  Lol!!!!
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Re: MLC script
#87: May 09, 2013, 04:59:39 PM
H you totally controlled me with your face.
This made me laugh but it also caused me think about W and how throughout our relationship she could look at me with her doey eyes, blink a few times and make any resistance I might have offered futile. :-\  :)

You maybe under estimating the power of your face Superdog. :)
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Re: MLC script
#88: May 09, 2013, 05:05:38 PM
that's when i through the cabbage and hit is head and it rolled down the street.............
Was it the cabbage or his head rolling down the street? :)
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Re: MLC script
#89: May 09, 2013, 05:34:30 PM
Drum roll please...

I got "You never trusted me"!!!

I also got "You are always right about everything", "You didn't like the way I kissed", "I'll always care about you", "We are like roommates", "You spend too much $$$" ( I guess he was counting the thousands of dollars he was spending to sneak off with schmoopie during the work day as my expense).

A classic was "I tried" when asked if we could go to counseling and try and save our marriage. I'm not sure if you count the time boinking schmoopie as the time you were trying to save your marriage.
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