Hi everyone...........
A few wks after BD i learnt of h affair.............at the time he was back home..........i threw him out again........a few days later we met up to talk.....h would not tell me who she was...........so i bought a tracker and put it on his car...........h didn't know how i found o/w address............. anyway i went up early one morning with my friend...........i knew h was there i waited for o/w to take her D to school and went to her house...........i knocked on the door.......then i opened the door to walk in just as h was coming to answer.......he was like
and then he ran off upstairs........i calmly walked back to my friends car and we sat and waited outside o/w house............o/w friend saw me and must have texted her...........she would not come home..............then h texted me and said o/w is ringing the police to have you removed............i said OK that's fine ............I'm sure the police will be interested to know why am hear so if she as any sense she will not call them........h begged o/w not to ..............we beeped and drove off.........h must have sneaked out of her other door and was home packing his stuff when i arrived.............later that day i went back up and knocked on her door as h had my keys.........h came to the door when he saw it was me..............o/w shouted through the door you better leave or I'm calling the police...........by this I'm livid i shout back to her whist your ringing the police ring the social security up and explain you have a married man living here and he as been for the last 6 wks (previous to him coming home) o/w slammed the window and stormed off..........SS paid her rent and council tax............so she would have been in big trouble............(and as been caught by the SS since and was taken to court and fined, i didn't need to say anything apparently her neighbour reported her lol) ..........h came home the next day and had the cheek to say to me that i shouldn't have involved o/w she as nothing to do with this
............i said so why did she let you in i said, as well as learning to keep her LEGS closed she should learn to keep her door locked to m/m.............
H ...........i told you i would leave if you continued to watch those soaps.....(at the time it was coronation street when Kevin Webster was having an affair.....i didnt know h was at this time
Daughter to h why did you marry mum if you knew then you would not stay together.............he said i put him on the spot by proposing if i wouldn't have asked he wouldn't have married me........the thing is he proposed to me twice before i accepted............i accepted through a proposal in the local paper on his dads memorial so we could mark this day............the newspaper followed us from the wedding through to our honey moon i still have the cork from the champagne he bought and the newspaper articles..........when he proposed he did in front of a room full of relatives.........when i called him on it he denied saying anything to D.....
H you would like o/w if you got to know her...........i looked
at h and said you what........he said shes just like you when you was her age...........i was fuming, i started throwing potatoes and anything else i could get my hands on this was said whilst we unloading shopping from the car, i laugh now when i recall h chasing the food down the street)........... i was shouting when i was her age........i was not sleeping with married men..............i was not called the town bike............and lastly i was not a owr ............H i didn't mean that i meant personality wise, you know what i mean no need to be nasty...........i said open your eyes your making yourself the laughing stock..........i said you go on like shes perfect............he said well she is to me......that's when i through the cabbage and hit is head and it rolled down the street..............
I didn't make his coffee right........now if he calls i make exactly how Ive always made it.........and always ask is that OK..............never one complaint lol.............
He said i too was too controlling............i said NO h...........i said what you call controlling is me is/was supporting you...........if i was controlling i would be like o/w with a doglead around your neck.............i said you had freedom to do what you wanted because i trusted you..........you abused that trust............and now o/w is controlling you because she knows your a cheat and doesn't trust you
I didn't leave the kids just you
In the past when i would truth dart him..............he would reply and say i thought you had changed obviously not...........me why do i need to change all i do is tell the truth........so now you want me to become a liar just like you
We were once having a texting WAR ............and he called me a name cant even remember what it was ...........but i remember texting back WHOOPS check your phone me thinks its confusing me for your owr..........no reply to that one
Ive plenty more but think Ive typed too much already lol............
When i look back its crazy but back then i was so hurt...............if someone would have said to me you will be laughing about all this one day i would have been like
but I'm not I'm
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