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#20: May 12, 2013, 01:20:27 PM
Quote from: Musica on May 12, 2013, 01:12:52 PM
Just remembered one from ages ago ...

You're the best at being you, but I've had you for 22 years and now I want something different.

And another ... I'm going to build a log cabin in the field to live in. Or ... We should buy two houses near each other so I can be free to do what I want.

Can't I live here and still see OW?

The girls don't need me any more, none of you need me, I might as well not be here.

Oh the memories!!


Trying to insert a quote. Still learning this stuff. Anyway in reference to above, no wonder exH wanted me to stay in the house while he stayed in the apartment over the garage. He got the best of both worlds.
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Re: MLC script II
#21: May 12, 2013, 01:27:42 PM
That reminds me two that happened at the same time--as I look back--probably the beginning of his years of discontent (wish it was just a winter of discontent)

I don't like any of my clothes. Yet nothing I bought him new was what he wanted either.

I'd like to live next to each other in a duplex.

A few years later he said, when I was stressed about a serious personnel problem at work,

You need to see a psychiatrist.

That is one of the warning signs in "The Script", the book that describes the mind and stages and thinking of the person having an affair. Great book that was spot on for what I experienced.

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Re: MLC script II
#22: May 12, 2013, 01:27:57 PM
Well I thought I had heard and seen it all, but last night I got a call on MY cell phone for the OW! Really???
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Re: MLC script II
#23: May 12, 2013, 02:16:00 PM
I am not responding to my H's clingy contact, as a week ago he told me he wanted me out of his life and our business and that he loved the OW.  Fair enough Bursty.  Careful what you wish for. 

Last night I received this email from him:

Just wanted to say - Thank you for being such a great mother to those boys.
It;'s not been easy and you have done a great job.

I used to be sucked in by these from him.  Now all I think is that he is assuaging his guilt, so that he can continue with his sordid new life. 
And the 'it's not been easy' doesn't really even acknowledge who it's not been easy for.  Him no doubt.
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Re: MLC script II
#24: May 12, 2013, 02:17:00 PM
Quote from: Musica on May 12, 2013, 01:12:52 PM
And another ... I'm going to build a log cabin in the field to live in. Or ... We should buy two houses near each other so I can be free to do what I want.

Can't I live here and still see OW?

The girls don't need me any more, none of you need me, I might as well not be here.

This made me laugh, Musica...just swap girls for boys and they could be auditioning for the same role ;D

I, too, got that I should see a psychiatrist, Reinventing, when I said I was having difficulty understanding WTH is going on
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Re: MLC script II
#25: May 12, 2013, 02:27:29 PM
   Letting Goes H said "Even when I am over there at OWs,  I am more here with you than there with her."  and "It's easier to live with people you don't care about!"   :o :o :o
   May have gotten it off a few words but you get the gist. 8)
   Actually makes sense on some insane level!
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#26: May 12, 2013, 02:45:36 PM
Quote from: Mamma Bear on May 12, 2013, 02:27:29 PM
   Letting Goes H said "Even when I am over there at OWs,  I am more here with you than there with her."  and "It's easier to live with people you don't care about!"   :o :o :o

Hey mama - I know this is not a competition, but credit where credit is due - that was Bursty who said 'Even when I am over there at OWs, I am more here with you than there with her'  ;D ;D ;D  Whatever the heck that meant. 

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Re: MLC script II
#27: May 12, 2013, 02:46:17 PM
This thread has given me a much needed giggle this evening!

Having just had H in close proximity these last two weeks, here are some of the 'script' we didnt get at BD 1 and 2:

'but you know I can't be on my own' - when challenged (by Ds) as to why he had involved himself with someone else, if it was not the reason for leaving!  This from the man who was going to live like a hermit at BD1.

H:  'you are so special'
Me: 'not special enough'
H: 'no you are too special'

'we were coasting along in our relationship, with no challenges to keep it alive', this was closely followed with 'we fought all the time'. 
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#28: May 12, 2013, 02:47:32 PM
Does anyone remember the line of brilliance from BonBon's H - something like his reason for leaving was that she couldn't dig ditches.  She apparently had a bad back at the time  :o :o :o
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#29: May 12, 2013, 02:52:09 PM
My favorites are still the one who asked his W of OW could move in and sleep at the foot of their bed, reasoning that she could help with the children and house chores and the one who offered to let his W meet the OW stating that he was sure she would like her because he did.  In what universe does this make sense?
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