[Ready2Transform]

It's a positive sign that he remembered at all!  11 hours is like 10 days in MLC years.   

Hoss mentioned to me last summer that he was taking some "memory" supplements.  Also that he figured out (aka OW told him) that he was overdosing on Vitamin D  which was causing him to throw up (not the whiskey), so he completely went off of that (nevermind that Vit D deficiency can enhance depression).  Oh, and he had a wart on his hand, so he was going to get acupuncture to cure it!    So glad he's proactive for his health.

[crazyjourney]

Mine bought a white board to write everything on at work so he wouldnt forget, then went out at a later date and bought an even bigger one.

Guess that was to remember the even bigger mess he is making lol.

[panda]

'You have stolen my pants and my umbrellas - where are they?' 



My H showed me his bruised and broken toe the other night telling me he has no idea how he did it.... how can this be???!!!!!!!!!!

[UKStander]

"I could take the safe, predictable route to the top with you, or take the more (forget the exact word) exciting path, even if it does lead to the precipice.  This goes to the very core and heart of my dilemma."

"There are people out there living on islands of pleasure...  I admit I've been dreaming recently of a nebulous someone."

"Don't blame (OW), it's not her fault."

UK-S

[Jagger]

H last night: I didnt abandon you guys, I still and always have given you money.   

I love you but I'm not coming home right now. I went from my moms house to you. I want you . I'm attracted to you but I'm afraid of coming back. I  feel peaceful over there.I'm myself!!

Me: wow   You want and love your wife.  So you feel peaceful away from here, but you're happy to play happy family and sleep with your wife three times a week?

H : yes

Me: do you realize that you're not normal?

H: I know I'm not normal, I think im crazy, but so are you. Said with a big goofy smile.

 DRAMA!DRAMA! DRAMA!  They love the drama!!!!!!

Me: I think you are right,  I must be crazy too. (said sarcastically)

We were Outside on  my balcony. He was Begging me the whole time to go inside and ML. He said: I have all this passion for you.

 CAN WE SAY CRAZY?



Help!

[NoRegrets]

"I'm nothing but a paycheck to you!"

(Even though I work full time and with a much longer commute than his, and most of our money was being spent on his vacation home. Yes, the kids were starting college, and that is expensive, but there I was, working full time as well, doing much more around the house than he was. He would disappear for hours "Going for a walk" or "Have projects at work." He would mope and be angry or play on-line video games at home, not want to socialize. So, in a way, maybe he was right....)

[CallanG]

My H moaned that I was not contributing enough money wise and therefore he had no disposable income . So he has hooked up with OW who is up to her eyeballs in debt and now he is paying the bills for two households . Genius !!!

I should add that I paid for all food, holidays, household items and gifts and he has 3 cars and a motor bike , that might be where some of his disposable income was going .

[Duthla]

My H moaned that I was not contributing enough money wise and therefore he had no disposable income . So he has hooked up with OW who is up to her eyeballs in debt and now he is paying the bills for two households . Genius !!!
H last night: I didnt abandon you guys, I still and always have given you money.
"I'm nothing but a paycheck to you!"

Heard all of these things before. Meanwhile, I work FT in my own career and took care of all my own expenses, my S's expenses and gave what I could to the household. I never asked H for money for anything. H accused "being stuck with a wife who got used to the good life and forgot about the important things". 
Now, H is with his employee, so pays her salary as well as all the little "extras" she would be entitled to as his g/f.  OW also does not drive, so H must pick her up and drive her around when they get together.  So money wise, he's got himself a leech.

[Wed2Him?Whatever.]

After my H had presented me with divorce papers (okay he didn't present them so much as leave them ON TOP OF MY PURSE, SO I'D SEE THEM BEFORE HEADING OFF TO WORK THAT MORNING WHILE HE HID IN HIS BATHROOM) he later explained the date he used as our separation date (we hadn't yet separated): "I put 7/01/2011 because in my mind that's when we separated."  Um... in your mind?  It's now May 2012 and you're still in our home but separated from me IN YOUR MIND?  Hey, this might be a dumb question, but when you file a document with a court of law that's requiring you to say when you PHYSICALLY ceased CO-HABITATION with your wife, do you think the judge gives a rat's patootey when you MENTALLY CHECKED OUT?!
We should totally start a thread about not only the things our MLCers said but the things we wish we could have responded with.  Now that we're detached and all.

[crazyjourney]

Wed

That was just so funny, especially the rats patootey so so funny.

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