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MLC Monster MLC script III
OP: May 22, 2013, 02:07:58 PM
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Re: MLC script III
#1: May 22, 2013, 05:55:39 PM
My favorite was when my H told me to go find a boyfriend, so I would have someone else to bother.

Yeah, just what I need another man.
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Me 53
H (whatever he is) 55
D for financial reasons March 2012
Started seeing massive change over the summer 2012
Left end of October 2012
Started coming home thanksgiving 2013
Home now. March 2014
Believe ow is gone
Probably going through this for years
OW discovered Oct.23,2013,old GF from before we met at the age of 16!
Left again Oct. 20 2015
Came back two weeks later
Still here 01/17 not done yet
Home 2019,rebuilding
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Re: MLC script III
#2: May 23, 2013, 03:24:29 AM
I got that a week or so after BD/he left...that he couldn't wait for me to come to him and tell him I'd met someone else...

Later once monster had really settled in, he included in a very punitive separation agreement proposal that he should be notified immediately if I get involved with a "third party"...so he can get involved and take kids to see her without notifying me - while we're still married!! - but he thinks I should have some kind of legal obligation to tell him if I ever get involved with someone once separated?!   :o  Nuts...
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Re: MLC script III
#3: May 23, 2013, 03:40:32 AM
XW originally tried to have put into the Separation Agreement that she could come by the house any time she wanted to but that I had to schedule visiting at her place.  Seriously!  She said she didn't want to "find me on her doorstep."  LOL!!

She also told me shortly after BD that I should find someone else to "put up with me." 
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Re: MLC script III
#4: May 23, 2013, 06:48:12 AM
Oh dear, I got a version of that too...he should have a key to this house - meanwhile we don't even know his address.

I wasn't sure if this was a MLC but I'm starting to doubt there could be this many similarities and it NOT be MLC!  :P
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Re: MLC script III
#5: May 23, 2013, 09:53:55 AM
I also heard the same thing from H. "I hope you find a boyfriend soon so that you can be happy AND be okay with me and OW".  ???
He also said a time later: "Trust me, in a year from now you and your b/f and me and OW will be standing in the kitchen talking and drinking wine."  :o
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Re: MLC script III
#6: May 23, 2013, 11:45:01 AM
Lol, Duthla!  I was told we would have one large Christmas celebration and be like one big happy extended family.  Heh, no.
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Re: MLC script III
#7: May 23, 2013, 12:24:58 PM
It's truly ridiculous isn't it?
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Re: MLC script III
#8: May 23, 2013, 12:39:57 PM
How about the gross criticism that monster used to hurl at me from my clinger, as though his actions were somehow my fault -  'I've left, but I've never really left!'
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Re: MLC script III
#9: May 23, 2013, 01:10:04 PM
..or mine, who when I said I thought there had always been such a strong connection between us, said "but, in my mind that connection has never been broken"!!! I sometimes wonder if I'm making this up!
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