[Thundarr]

''We have nothing in common anymore'' ( oh right....we don't enjoy camping, the same music, the same films, tv programs, our kids, our dogs, ingenuity, similar childhood, gardening, good food, sharing a beer together.....nah, you're right, NOTHING!!!!)

''Maybe we've been together too long''.........Oh that must be it, I mean, I have never heard of until death do us part!!!

I could have written this exactly...............

[Mitzpah]

''Maybe we've been together too long''.........Oh that must be it, I mean, I have never heard of until death do us part!!!

I got ' there was nothing in our marriage vows that mentions being happy!' when in our vows we had the the phrase 'in happiness and sadness' (in Portuguese!) - oh well...

[BB64]

''Maybe we've been together too long''.........Oh that must be it, I mean, I have never heard of until death do us part!!!

I got ' there was nothing in our marriage vows that mentions being happy!' when in our vows we had the the phrase 'in happiness and sadness' (in Portuguese!) - oh well...

Oh dear, I didn't realise one should state the OBVIOUS when writing up vows or before making a promise...

We really shouldn't take any notice, but boy, words can be mightier than the sword

[Slow Fade]

Our Pastor reminded my H that our vows said "for better or for worse" NOT "for better or forget about it".

Of course it went right over his head.

[Songanddance]

I got  " I can understand how men of other faiths are happy living with more than one wife - makes perfect sense to me." this was right after he told me that OW was a complete mess!!!

[BB64]

I got  " I can understand how men of other faiths are happy living with more than one wife - makes perfect sense to me." this was right after he told me that OW was a complete mess!!!

Pffff, did he not hear himself say that, then? LOL, He could barely handle being married to one woman at the time what makes him think he could handle being tied to several at once hahaha
And as you said, right after telling you the OW was a complete mess

Another thing my ex said to me when I blew him a kiss goodbye on BD when he led me to believe we could maybe try again  First he cringed then said: ''You're being pushy again''.............

[Songanddance]

Ah BB64
My H is still at home but is the stereotypical Knight in Shining Armour to her Damsel in distress! of course he can handle more than one woman!!!! Yeah right!

[cherryblossom]

Mr CB's oldest friend - from school - told me that Mr CB had called him up a few months ago.

He told our friend that he was sorry he hadn't been in touch for a while (months, possibly even a year) but he'd been drunk for 4 days.  Then he said:

"I need to know if you're for me or against me.  I just don't have time in my life for people who aren't on my side"   

True story! x

[BB64]

Sounds like a line out of a gangster movie a bit like ''Follow me if you want to live!'' 

One word I kept getting from my ex while he is in monster was: 'WHY?!!'' in such a bizarre tone. Not quite an angry tone but not quite sure of himself either kinda tone.
I have recently discussed that with his mother and she said she was so sick of him saying that four letter word all the time, she felt like slapping him every time it came out of his mouth.(that would have been a whole load of slaps because he said it a lot!)  We concluded that it was the teenage monster in him talking.
He's dropped that now.

[lawprofessor]

Hi All,
For what its worth, I got, "We have fundamental differences." 
Like what you ask?
There were five that outweighed all else positive in his pea brain that I heard repeatedly each time we got closer and spent enjoyable time together.  Within days I would get spewing swearing monster yelling these things at me. 
1.  I don't like horror movies???
2.  I drink milk.
3.  I enjoy other people and am friendly.
4.  I "made" him watch one episode of Everybody Loves Raymond several years before the BD.
5.  I am kind and believe the best in people.

Now the complaints with J in his depression that I am getting are mainly:
1.  I am too friendly and open with other people.
2.  I think everyone has something good in them.
3.  I eat too healthy. (LBS diet anyone?)
4.  I shower too often.  (Daily is too much, really?)
5.  I am too successful at my job and make too much money.

I really have some kind of luck.   If you don't learn your lesson the first time around, you might get the lightening bolt I got...Maybe I was Typhoid Mary or Lizzy Borden in another life.

This morning a conversation with J:
Me-Good Morning, would you help me move these things into the backyard?
J-No.  I don't feel like it and I don't have to if I don't want to.
Me-Please help me move these things of yours into the backyard before I am cited by the housing authority for having junk in my front yard.
J-Why are you so negative?  Why do you nag, nag, nag?  First you want me to shower, now to move these things.  What's next? Take out the garbage?
M-Now that you mention it, it is garbage day.  Please take out the recycling bin as well.
J-I'm only doing one or the other.  Which do you want me to do?
M-I see.  Well do the first then.
J-What was the first thing?

(And start all over with the conversation.)  I ended up taking out the recycling and garbage and moving the things to the back.  The only thing he did was help me move the heavy things.  I think I have just become the mother of a teenager without the pregnancy.