During one of h's 3 visits in a year, he was talking, and called me sweetheart, which he'd done for years. As soon as he said it, he shouted, "Don't know why I called you that, because you are NOT", while looking at me as if I'd done something wrong that he didn't approve of.
Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.
Albert Einstein