[Snowdrop]

Panda.  I do tend to repeat don't I?  Sorry.  Yes, though, it is comical, and if it makes any of us laugh, it was well worth it. 

Can you imagine the kids and I watching him as he said it.  This was the day after he told me on the phone that he'd married, and his first time seeing the children, and that's what they had to sit through.  Who would do such a thing, never mind a husband and father.  My goodness, imagine his and OWs conversations if that is anything to go by. 

He also added that OW's brother in law passed away who had the same first name as H, and as Hs sister recently passed away, they connected in heaven and made this happen.  The fact that herOW's deceased  BIL and H had the same first name was a "sign" that they were meant to be together, according to H.  What?  Is he 9 years old or something?

Now if only someone could tell me why I actually missed this man?  Not so much anymore.  Miss the guy he used to be, but not this version, AT ALL. 

Wow, so many "coincidences", they really SHOULD be together, and I'm the first one in line to suggest it, and add to that, send them off on a remote uninhabited island somewhere.  How scary to think both these people have jobs, as well as drivers licences!!!  That's criminal.   

Me: ' Do you have any feelings left for me?'
H: 'I would not want you to die'

That got me laughing too, what the heck does one have to do with the other?  Soooo funny.

[panda]

Snowdrop - when I said I read it a few times, I mean I re-read it a few times because I found it amazing/funny he actually said this!  not that you repeated it - his comment must be one of the funniest/mad I have seen.

Don't worry about his conversations with OW - maybe they chat all night and neither remember what they said afterwards    And as for fate.... well, we shall see how that one plays out!   Its really all crazy to me!

My H's comment about not wanting me to die is basically telling me the level he cares for me, ie, you would not want some stranger in the street to die.... thats how he sees me now... thanks H, lovely 14 years together....I would not want you H, to die either. x

[Snowdrop]

Panda.

Thank you.  I do repeat alot though, and it's all good!      If you think that one is funny, check out the one at the beginning of this thread.  Unbelievable!  He's all heart, that H of mine.

Well thats an added bonus if your H doesn't want you to die; how lovely of him to say so.  What a huge comfort that is; he sounds so caring!  I think my H might say the same, but simply because if I did, he'd have to have the kids.  Then again, in some sort of creepy way, I often wonder if he and OW want the kids so they could all be one "big happy family"!!  Both kids said if anything happened to me, they want to go into Foster Care.  How awful.

One thing H has done, and always did, but which makes my blood boil even more so now, is telling the kids, "come over here and give your dad a hug".  What? COME OVER HERE??  After all the pain he has inflicted and how he has ignored the kids, for him to stand still, and tell the kids to go over to him so they can give HIM a hug!!! 

Just the thought of that makes my skin crawl.  I need to put the kettle on.

[Reinventing]

He also added that OW's brother in law passed away who had the same first name as H, and as Hs sister recently passed away, they connected in heaven and made this happen.  The fact that herOW's deceased  BIL and H had the same first namfe was a "sign" that they were meant to be together, according to H.  What?  Is he 9 years old or something?

If that isn't the most outrageous grasping for straws rationalization I've ever heard! I'm astounded. The comfort is that it screams MLC.

[Snowdrop]

He also added that OW's brother in law passed away who had the same first name as H, and as Hs sister recently passed away, they connected in heaven and made this happen.  The fact that herOW's deceased  BIL and H had the same first namfe was a "sign" that they were meant to be together, according to H.  What?  Is he 9 years old or something?

If that isn't the most outrageous grasping for straws rationalization I've ever heard! I'm astounded. The comfort is that it screams MLC.

I think that's why the detachment is maybe a little easier than expected.  This is what we are dealing with!   

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Me: ' Do you have any feelings left for me?'
H: 'I would not want you to die'


[/quote]Wow Snowdrop. That quote is really creepy and pure MLC script. Not only is it creepy but it reminds of something my H kept saying over and over...

"I will not allow you to perish...."

Gee whiz, thanks H. Your generosity is boundless.

They are amazingly brutal....

[R]

You're saying that I should stay and be unhappy so that every one else can be happy?''.....

Crikey, I've heard this more times in the past four months, it should be his epitaph!! 

[living with Hope]

You're saying that I should stay and be unhappy so that every one else can be happy?''.....


Oh gosh...he throws that at me every time he thinks I want him to move home. I don't even have to say a word in that direction and he will yell a variation of that. He usually says that me and my one son can be happy.  I guess the other two kids don't deserve happiness.

Lol

[Snowdrop]

LOTH

"I will not allow you to perish...."

Gee whiz, thanks H. Your generosity is boundless.

Phew, thats a relief! So nice to know he is "there" for you!!!  ha ha  First thing that came to mind was the scene from Titanic with Jack and Rose in the water close to the end of the movie.  The other thing was a vision of a little bird in snowstorm trying to survive, as that's the only other time I can think of using the word perish since poetry was written in the early 1800s!!!

Your H probably thought he was some gallant soul making that statement.  Everything under control and everyone is safe now that LOTH's H is in charge!! ha ha

God bless them all because they need it, and God bless us because we deserve it!!!

[panda]

I also had 'I have seen a glimpse of happiness and I now know what it is like'...and 'the children will just want me to be happy'........yeah, great.


LOTH - 'I will not allow you to perish' - now I am really jealous because that's one step up from my H not wanting me to die!  I feel as if I am missing out now