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#60: May 26, 2013, 06:20:38 PM
Quote from: 1Cor.13 on May 25, 2013, 07:25:07 PM
Quote from: Slow Fade on May 25, 2013, 07:19:51 PM
Agree 1Cor.13. It would have to be God intervening in both of our lives for a r to be successful. One to bring my H back and one for me to open my heart to him again. But then, He is the Great Physician and the Healer of Broken Hearts. He can do anything. I trust God and I trust the process. Who knows.....

 Back at ya Slowfade, what else do we really have, but the Great Healer Himself? My prayers are for healing for all of us..in His time (the hard part, gulp)..

Stay strong, Be Blessed
1Cor.13

Thank God for God :)  When I am feeling down, when I read others stories (and my own), and all hope seems LOST, I remember... but God!  No matter what, if H ever comes back or not, God is still God, and I am already his child.  He's GOT THIS.  This is nothing to him.  Not even a blip on the radar screen.  It is HUGE for us, because we are so temporally focused.  This is where our faith comes in, and even when I have NOTHING else, I have that!  That being said, it is because of God that I pray for my H EVERY DAY.  Many times a day.  Even through the night, as I wake for a moment or two, I immediately pray for him, and for our family.  I pray that he be surrendered to the Lord, and also that his heart would be turned back towards home, to us, his family. 

I know you all feel the same... and I pray for you as well - this is not fair for anybody to have to go through, but for some reason, we are all experiencing it. 

Have a great night everyone  :)
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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#61: May 26, 2013, 06:40:57 PM
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That being said, it is because of God that I pray for my H EVERY DAY.  Many times a day.  Even through the night, as I wake for a moment or two, I immediately pray for him, and for our family.  I pray that he be surrendered to the Lord, and also that his heart would be turned back towards home, to us, his family
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I had to smile AH, I often wake during the night and I immediately start praying for my H and our marriage. I'm glad I'm not the only one! Praise God, always. God is good, all the time.  ;)
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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#62: May 26, 2013, 06:49:09 PM
Quote from: toughtimes on May 26, 2013, 05:42:56 PM
I never thought the infidelity had anything to do with me but that was because I knew infidelity does not have to do with the person that is cheated upon but with the person that cheats.

This is true but everyone, including the major R counselling service in our country RELATE, say that partners cheat because there is something wrong in the R. My Hs bf ex wife who was cheated on by her H said this to me too.
That antiquated attitude is scarily in need of an overhaul  :-\
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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#63: May 26, 2013, 07:00:33 PM
Agree with Kikki.

Calamity, i think it was my grandmother who taught me that...

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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#64: May 26, 2013, 07:02:36 PM
Quote from: Slow Fade on May 26, 2013, 06:40:57 PM
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That being said, it is because of God that I pray for my H EVERY DAY.  Many times a day.  Even through the night, as I wake for a moment or two, I immediately pray for him, and for our family.  I pray that he be surrendered to the Lord, and also that his heart would be turned back towards home, to us, his family
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I had to smile AH, I often wake during the night and I immediately start praying for my H and our marriage. I'm glad I'm not the only one! Praise God, always. God is good, all the time.  ;)

You aren't the only one! God is so good :)
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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#65: May 26, 2013, 09:51:38 PM
Being warned about the time issue was almost a release for me as it freed me from feeling frantic about having to do something and made me relax a bit about getting on with my life and allowing him to go through his own thing.   

I actually spent most of my time here on the articles before even reading the forum stories so I think in some ways I had a foundation for interpreting advice. 
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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#66: May 26, 2013, 09:59:07 PM
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I actually spent most of my time here on the articles before even reading the forum stories so I think in some ways I had a foundation for interpreting advice. 

This is how it should be.  :)
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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#67: May 26, 2013, 10:40:42 PM
One thing--being Memorial Day weekend and all I had a different kind of veterans on my mind when I read the title and kept skipping this thread because I thought it was just for ex-military people.  It isn't just the MLCers who have strange thought processes.








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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#68: May 26, 2013, 10:49:51 PM
ROFL Still Kicking, I thought the same thing! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Discussion topic for the Veterans and especially those in Mental Health
#69: May 27, 2013, 08:43:05 AM
Quote from: calamity on May 26, 2013, 09:59:07 PM
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I actually spent most of my time here on the articles before even reading the forum stories so I think in some ways I had a foundation for interpreting advice. 

This is how it should be.  :)

Agreed and agreed
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