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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#1: July 17, 2013, 10:46:30 AM
Thanks, OP!  Always on top of these things  :D

btw, heard that your SS is doing really well here - very well liked :)


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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#2: July 17, 2013, 01:40:04 PM
QUESTION - Conseling

I went to see my IC today.  He informed me W44 has requested a meeting.... she has requested we go to MC... I went to see her IC a few times (alone)... I believe she has not gone to see her IC more than 1 or 2x.

I'm guessing I am NOT to bring it up.  I signed the HIIPA releases to my files.  My commitment is to be solid and transparent.

Guessing/Validating... I am supposed to wait until either my IC contacts me or W44 brings it up.

What would you do?

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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#3: July 17, 2013, 03:28:24 PM
Hi, my lovely mentors!
I was wondering of it would be possible for one of you to carry out a conversation with me in private, via PM.?
There is a lot more to my story but for legal reasons I cannot speak about it on the boards and it needs to be told in strict confidentiality.
Thanks for taking the time to read my request and considering it.
Much love xx
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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#4: July 17, 2013, 04:50:22 PM
You can pm me.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#5: July 17, 2013, 04:51:48 PM
QUESTION - Conseling

I went to see my IC today.  He informed me W44 has requested a meeting.... she has requested we go to MC... I went to see her IC a few times (alone)... I believe she has not gone to see her IC more than 1 or 2x.

I'm guessing I am NOT to bring it up.  I signed the HIIPA releases to my files.  My commitment is to be solid and transparent.

Guessing/Validating... I am supposed to wait until either my IC contacts me or W44 brings it up.

What would you do?

Yes I would wait for IC or wife to bring it up.  What's HIIPA?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#6: July 17, 2013, 05:01:43 PM
Thank you, Calamity, PM sent xx
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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#7: July 17, 2013, 08:06:17 PM
  What's HIIPA?
The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) Privacy Rule is the first comprehensive Federal protection for the privacy of personal health ...
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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#8: July 17, 2013, 08:36:05 PM
  HIPAA means we (hospital employees & health care professionals etc) can't tell anyone that a patient is in the hospital or what's wrong with them BUT the Enquirer can have Elton John entering rehab on the front cover. Photo shot from the bushes.  :o :o :o
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Re: Ask a Mentor 5
#9: July 17, 2013, 09:18:54 PM
Thanks.  :)
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