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#100: November 01, 2013, 03:19:52 PM
Oh yeah, and I got this one too:

I don't want to settle. 

WTF??  I told him, "I didn't think we were settling at all."

CT  8)
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#101: November 01, 2013, 04:24:56 PM
A few months before BD: 

You have pretty underwear!   (16 years after being married....  What the heck??  Compared to whom?? )
I wonder what it feels like to live with someone during a divorce?  (our neighbors up the street were going thru this)

After not being intimate with me for a few years-->> excuse of meds:   Wow, this feels like when we first started dating!  I feel great!
The next week after intimacy:  I don't feel anything anymore!  I have made a decision to leave and when I make a decision, that is it!!    (held me all night long and wanted more in the middle of the night)
Can we still go out to dinner as a family after I leave...like D and A do with their kids?  (No H, they didn't get a D due to an affair.)
How did this get so messed up??  (b/c you brought a 3rd party into our marriage H)     

And all the others posted on here, most of them anyway!        :-\ ???                   
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S15, now S20, came home end of 6/15.
M   6/1994 (only marriage)
BD1 12/08 He told me to leave the house for no reason.  I did not leave my house or family.
BD2 3/10 he asked for a D
BD3 4/10 H filed for the D
BD4 5/10 H flew 1400 miles to see OW
BD5 6/10 he walked out w/OW in  tow
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#102: November 04, 2013, 05:46:29 PM
I want nothing but good things for you

I'm done, I'm never coming back

I need time/space to think

I'm not going to be taken advantage of anymore

I'm tired of taking care of people, I'm not going to hold their hands anymore
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#103: November 04, 2013, 06:06:27 PM
song You Dropped A Bomb On Me - The Gap Band
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17lkdqoLt44
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#104: November 04, 2013, 06:27:12 PM
Love these.  For a laugh, I often read the Script thread, and am guaranteed to laugh until I cry.  These people are so unreal aren't they, yet in a way, so creepy how they all say and do the same things.  Then again, we do too, but at least we aren't weird ;)
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#105: November 04, 2013, 06:58:24 PM
CT- I just about peed my pants reading your list!!!!!

I got just about all of these EXCEPT the I love you but not in love with you speech..
I got:

 I don't love you anymore
This family is a sham
I'm done
I'm not sleeping here anymore ( he was sleeping in the garage before that)
After he left the house one night and I figured out he was with exow confronted him.. he got all indignant and said:

"I was home before midnight!"  :o :o :o

Asked me more than once if I wanted a divorce
Told me to go find somebody to slow dance with ( I never mentioned that was ever an issue)
The only thing I ever meant to him was sex ( said this twice; I tend to believe this one)
You never finish anything you start ( me wanting to paint the kitchen cabinets.)

About exow; "She has a beautiful spirit-I will always love her She is a good woman."

Then afterward THAT blew up said:

 "Your 1000 times the person she is.."

 (yeah- then you kick me out with nothing but the clothes on my back..call the Troopers.. assault me..WOW)


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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#106: November 04, 2013, 08:13:34 PM
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I'm not sleeping here anymore ( he was sleeping in the garage before that)
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#107: November 05, 2013, 02:30:34 AM
He was! Had a futon..of course it was summer..I think he was considering moving in with exow. I wish he had done that instead.

 Would have been cheaper and easier and less of a hassle for me.
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#108: November 05, 2013, 04:18:55 AM
I am never coming back!
On me saying he'd never apologised "I'm sorry you found out!"
On me asking if he would ever have told me"I hoped you'd never find out"
On me asking what's so great about OW " she's fun" yeah right, crazy BPD more like!
On me saying she seems controlling " oh it's just better if we do things her way"

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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#109: November 05, 2013, 06:36:10 AM
My version of ILYBNILWY:

-Me: Babe, what's going on; don't you love me anymore?
-Her: Honestly, I am just not feeling it!
-Me: WTF do you mean not "feeling it"?!?!  :o
-Her: I have love for you; I just don't have those loving feelings I should have!

Other random sh!t from BD to now:

-I felt like this for years...since the beginning! (at BD.....all 21 years of marriage?!?!?!  :o)
-I felt like this since D10 was born (about 2 months after BD. WTF...which is it?!?!?!  ???)
-I felt trapped!
-I am so confused! (yeah....so am I!  ???)
-I want to have those feelings for you, but I don't and don't know why! (has made this statement several times and still confirms this as a desire).
-Don't you want someone to reciprocate your love and affection? (Yeah...YOU!  :o)
-We got married too young! (I was 23, she was 20...and we dated for over a year)
-We were never in love! (WTF was this then for 22 F**kin Years?!?!  :o)
-You're a great guy and a great father; D10 loves you and she needs you! (Yeah....and you?  ???)
-You are more like a brother or cousin to me!  :o
-I recognize you as my Husband, close friend, and confidant, but not my lover!  :o
-I am not leaving (after I told her I didn't want her to leave, but it was her choice and I wouldn't stop her)
-I almost left you!
-I almost told you to leave!
-Sometimes I feel like I need some space!
-I feel guilty about all this; but I can't help it! (I have gotten this one more than once!)
-It's not fair to you; but I can't help it! (same with this one)
-I feel better; but now your sad and I feel guilty about it. (After she finally expressed her feelings on how she actually felt)
-What's wrong babe? I'm not just asking because I feel guilty! (She would say this early after BD when I was still wearing my emotions)
-Sometimes I want you to let me go; but other/most of time I want you to hold on to me.


After discovery of EA:

-I can't believe I let my self get emotionally attached to another man; but I needed it!
-I know what I did was wrong and inappropriate; but I needed it!
-I am so sorry I did this baby; but I needed it!
(I'm not kidding; she actually made all three of those statements with the same "but I needed it" ending!)
-I feel lost again! (since she no longer has her "chat" buddy to lean on)
-Why do you (still) love me? (she felt I shouldn't because of her EA!)

-Her: I was trying, but I just couldn't feel that bond and connection to you.
-Me: No sh!t; that's because you let yourself get attached emotionally to someone else. (<---truth dart)


On having sex:

-You're the only one I want to have sex with, but, I only want the sex; no emotions attached! (WTF...married one-nighters?!?!?!?!  ???)
-I said I don't want to have sex anymore! (really? this was less than a week after the above statement; she had hopped into bed naked, snuggling. This is her normal method of initiating so I went to reciprocate!)
-24 hours later she comes to bed again, same as above, then gets upset when I am hesitant to respond to her advances (WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!  :o)
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D: 12/16/2014

End State: I'm glad it is over, for several reasons....too many to list here. I am so much better off and, aside from the great kids we have, regret ever marrying her.
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