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#110: November 05, 2013, 10:16:47 AM
Oh yeah...I got the "It's not fair to you" line too.  Of course, it's not fair to me you moron!  You didn't give me the choice!! 

I swear... I think I need to go all ninja on his a$$. 

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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#111: November 05, 2013, 10:18:10 AM
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Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#112: November 05, 2013, 10:38:40 AM
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Oh yeah...I got the "It's not fair to you" line too.  Of course, it's not fair to me you moron!  You didn't give me the choice!!

I swear... I think I need to go all ninja on his a$$.


And that's the bad part. They say some sh!t like that, multiple times, then they must actually realize it. So instead of calmly validating, you would rather throw it straight back in their face "then why are you doing it?!"

Oh wait...that's right....*sniffle*...."I can't help it!"


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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#113: November 05, 2013, 10:56:21 AM
Love this thread  ;D ;D

The obvious ILYBNILWY
You're like my sister
You are so controlling and nagging - how on earth could any man put up with that?
I am not coming back you know.  Repeated daily for two weeks.  Nice huh?
You never listened.
You hate me racing, you hate my work; all I want to do is have some time to myself - so says the man who worked a 70-80 hour week and then every other weekend!!

His nicer phase... LOL!!
you're too good for me
I'm letting you go.
Find someone who can be better for you than me.
I pushed you away for your own good.
I want to see what life is like with other people.  I have to give myself that chance.

I could go on, but I am boring even myself  ::)
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#114: November 05, 2013, 11:02:52 AM
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I could go on, but I am boring even myself 
CB ;D ;D for a second I thought he said that too ;D ;D ;D AS IF!! ::)
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Re: Listing the bombshells/things that they say...
#115: November 05, 2013, 11:07:03 AM
 
Quote from: Snowdrop on November 05, 2013, 11:02:52 AM
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I could go on, but I am boring even myself 
CB ;D ;D for a second I thought he said that too ;D ;D ;D AS IF!! ::)

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PMSL, SD!! I know he thinks he's God's gift to the needy, but we have to draw a line somewhere !!!!
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Re: MLC script IV
#116: November 06, 2013, 04:45:51 PM
Just thought I'd share this .......
I happened to comment on how wrong it was that some retailers were making profit out of selling poppies and remembrance badges rather than passing it onto the charity. H nodded and said ,"some people have no scruples do they?"
I smiled sweetly, looked him in the eyes and replied,"no some people don't."
 Don't think he got it! Ho hum!
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Re: MLC script IV
#117: November 06, 2013, 04:52:23 PM
They never see it in thier own behavior; this has blown my mind more than once!  :o :o ::)
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: MLC script IV
#118: November 06, 2013, 06:12:38 PM
Songanddance,

My H often criticises others' bad behaviour but never recognises it in himself even though it can be exactly as he is behaving :0/.

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Re: MLC script IV
#119: November 07, 2013, 12:27:08 AM
My experience exactly! I can't tell you how many times I heard him tell me about how he had to comfort some poor soul whose R had gone west or whose other half had done some terrible and totally heartless thing...like abandon his family (of course it's almost always women who come to him for comfort) :o ::)
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