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#20: September 04, 2013, 11:19:23 PM
Astrid, BD1 for me 2010, my h said just the same thing - maybe we can start again, forget about the past R and start afresh! Haven't heard any others say this yet but you saying makes me think this is script too!
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#21: September 04, 2013, 11:44:23 PM
Me - 'So you are off again, what about your children?'
H - 'I am preparing them for when I leave for good'
Me - 'And you think this is ok?'
H - 'Well I didn't see my father for months at a time when I was their age'  -------------- (boarding school)
Me - 'So that makes it ok then?!!!'



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Re: MLC script IV
#22: September 05, 2013, 01:03:51 AM
Hi toughtimes well he surely managed to forget about the past but he did not build his new life with me and the kids!!!!!! H is now blaming me for not seeing the kids and for manipulating them. He also said that him being on drugs is cause of me and if he stayed he'd still be using. I know that he'd done so all his life jerk!!!
 Together with I never loved you and did not love you enough. You let yourself go and don't take care of your appearance and have not slimmed down after S3. Very difficult to do so working full time, raising two kids plus him, I also have umbilical hernia and due to the fact that he never really worked I could not stop to do my operation and still can't cause he does not give child maintenance. 
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Re: MLC script IV
#23: September 05, 2013, 11:37:31 AM
ISTILLMATTER:  'You use too much cheese in your cooking'.  Not the 4-cheese lasagna? 
[Soulmate Schmoopies].
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#24: September 05, 2013, 11:59:49 AM
My X still has a very "entitlement attitude" she believes I should modify my schedule and life to always accommodate her. Even after 2 1/2 years divorced that I "owe" her.

Her common refrain regarding custody and placement issues with our three boys on Mom nights ... "As the saying goes ... it takes a village." Meaning can you take them I have other plans.

My response to her text last night - We live in two separate villages that have never developed a plan on how to coexist.

Some stay in the fog for a loooooooooooooooong time

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Re: MLC script IV
#25: September 05, 2013, 04:00:04 PM
Are you sure this isn't just her personality? After this much time WTF is she doing?? ::)
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There are two ways of spreading light:
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Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: MLC script IV
#26: September 05, 2013, 04:17:03 PM
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  ISTILLMATTER:  'You use too much cheese in your cooking'.  Not the 4-cheese lasagna? 
[Soulmate Schmoopies]. 

Haha Calamity cracked me up! And don't forget the meatloaf!! ;)
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Re: MLC script IV
#27: September 05, 2013, 04:50:03 PM
I can't wait until Thanksgiving..the first year I was on here someone posted about
 "Mashed potatoes  and a well placed turkey baster" Still cracks me up as I'm typing this. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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#28: September 05, 2013, 05:03:57 PM
We could never go out clubbing as friends we would end up f*cking each other. .......I do love you but like a brother!

All in the same 3 minute conversation.  Maybe her childhood was more messed up than I realised :-\
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Re: MLC script IV
#29: September 05, 2013, 05:19:59 PM
Quote from: calamity on September 05, 2013, 11:37:31 AM
ISTILLMATTER:  'You use too much cheese in your cooking'.  Not the 4-cheese lasagna? 
[Soulmate Schmoopies].

I cooked cheesy potatoes and cheese enchiladas.  Not the same night, but usually the same week.
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