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#40: October 18, 2013, 01:34:08 PM
The latest one I had  was
"I'm sorry that people are getting hurt - it's inevitable and it hurts me to do what I'm doing but it can't be helped!"
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Re: MLC script IV
#41: October 18, 2013, 09:52:26 PM
Songanddance I got something similar:

BH, you are not the only one hurting! This hurts all of us! :o
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Re: MLC script IV
#42: October 18, 2013, 11:36:32 PM
I've moved on, the kids have moved on. (All to do with me accepting ow)

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Re: MLC script IV
#43: October 18, 2013, 11:38:14 PM
Anyone else get accused of abusing their MLCer or am I the only one? It tends to happen when the MLCer is not getting their own way. Bring out the big guns.
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Re: MLC script IV
#44: October 19, 2013, 01:28:36 AM
I got 'You are so controlling' and then 'Do you know the children have no discipline and you let them do what they want'.

'You are making me leave my children because of your terrible and controlling ways'
'You are the devil'
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Re: MLC script IV
#45: October 19, 2013, 06:17:42 AM
Just had to tag onto the ever been accused of abusing your mlcer.

Before my h moved out last year we had an argument and I was shouting at him to leave. He was on his way out of the back door and I pushed his backpack in order to shut the door quickly. He then flung open the door and said to me that I would never "assault him" ever again. Wtf??..

I said I pushed your backpack you freak if that's assault then call the cops, there's the phone right there.

And what he meant by "again" I will never know. Suspect it was not really me he was talking to, if you know what I mean.

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Re: MLC script IV
#46: October 19, 2013, 06:49:28 AM
I've just remembered this one..

"I wouldn't put it past you to be calling OW and both of you conspiring against me - that's why I feel so ill. You're both poisoning me!"

And he meant literally poisoning as he claims that after some cups of tea he doesn't feel well....
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Re: MLC script IV
#47: October 19, 2013, 06:57:00 AM
Quote from: Songanddance on October 19, 2013, 06:49:28 AM
I've just remembered this one..

"I wouldn't put it past you to be calling OW and both of you conspiring against me - that's why I feel so ill. You're both poisoning me!"

And he meant literally poisoning as he claims that after some cups of tea he doesn't feel well....

This made me laugh - sorry S&D but how do you put up with it!!!
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Re: MLC script IV
#48: October 19, 2013, 07:38:19 AM
The 'I'm hurting too' is the most frustrating; like he's hitting us both with a stick, accusing me of making him hit & complaining that it hurts.
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Re: MLC script IV
#49: October 19, 2013, 08:02:02 AM
this is just what i needed today!!!!

so validating to hear some of the same things your crazyass MLCers said...

in addition to the oh so many "top tens" (i'll always take care of you, i'll always love you, you are a good mother, friend, daughter, employee, etc., but not a good wife, blah blah blah), here are a couple of kickers that stand out in my mind...

"i moved on years ago" (hey! thanks so much for letting me know 5 YEARS LATER--more like thanks for nothin'!)
"i'm not the man for you" (gee, h, don't i get to decide that?)
and maybe the most mind-boggling...

"i'm not a quitter"  :o :o :o :o :o :o
i still can't figure that one out but i gave up trying after about 10 minutes...

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