[BB64]

I thouht you might like this ....well,...you know what I mean.....

Friend of mine. Starting mlc. Female age 45. Married 20 yrs. Speajs openely about it with a h aware if it too:

"I want to go to France, I want that other man in France, I could lose everything but I have to do it, I want excitement, be a free spirit, I am going to leave my h, yeah eff it, I am. I don't want to lose him as a friend though. My mum says he would take me back if I did, because I know it will lead nowhere, it'll go Pete Tongue (she laughs). Oh well, I just have to do it"


Couldn't believe my ears!!!!!!

[Albatross]

I thouht you might like this ....well,...you know what I mean.....

Friend of mine. Starting mlc. Female age 45. Married 20 yrs. Speajs openely about it with a h aware if it too:

"I want to go to France, I want that other man in France, I could lose everything but I have to do it, I want excitement, be a free spirit, I am going to leave my h, yeah eff it, I am. I don't want to lose him as a friend though. My mum says he would take me back if I did, because I know it will lead nowhere, it'll go Pete Tongue (she laughs). Oh well, I just have to do it"


Couldn't believe my ears!!!!!!

That is how exactly they think, bat$h!te crazy.

[BB64]

I already knew this, but to hear it from her as well?!!!!
She is my friend though and I love her to bits, I won't judge her for it, it is none of my business.

I posted this for newer members really, as an illustration.

[Returned]

We have so much in common. ( I said yeah you are both a couple of lying cheating selfish rats, you can sit there and tell each other lies all night, then spend the day looking over your shoulder).
X

Did you really say that? I am rolling on the floor in laughter. Most people never confront MLCers with the truth.

[SSG]

We have so much in common. ( I said yeah you are both a couple of lying cheating selfish rats, you can sit there and tell each other lies all night, then spend the day looking over your shoulder).
X

Did you really say that? I am rolling on the floor in laughter. Most people never confront MLCers with the truth.

I did. The day of BD, said he thinks he is having a MLC. I looked at  him and said you are too old for a MLC.  This is what I see:  You have a free house to run off to, where your problems are gone, and she finally has someone to take care of the dogs and repair her house.  H said yea that is about it.  I said you are nothing but a laborer and a prostitute then !

The best was, a month before he  moved out, he was telling me some story about what he is going to do, which I knew was a lie.  I looked at him so...he said that is the truth. I said H, you haven't told me the truth for the past 17 months.  H said, "Well, yea..that is true".

[superdog]

Long journey, yes I did ! I just couldn't believe I was hearing that crap come out his mouth. I darted him like a pin cushion. :-)

I have to say that when it came to the puppy love stuff I never gave him an inch.

Has telling my mlcer what I really think made any difference, not to him, but to me it has. I would have spontaneously combusted if I had held in everything I had to say.

Sd
X

[always hopeful]

Ok, so my W BD me late Oct.2013, she moved back home late Jan.2014  When she came back, she was snooping through my phone and found out I talked with some close friends about us and went out with her cousin to a club who is a guy.  She told me to get my OWN friends to go do things with and to leave her friends alone.  She asked "who does that" and told me I have no boundaries   All coming from a W with an OM since BD   Can't make this stuff up!

[in it]

I said H, you haven't told me the truth for the past 17 months.  H said, "Well, yea..that is true".

I'm sorry this is just too much!! At least he's telling you the truth that he's lying...
It's what they DO!

They aren't lying when they are sleeping.


I KNOW AH

 You simply cannot make this $h!te up....she's trying to find anything she can on you to make you look as bad as she does. .....Not even close....friends with a cousin? WOW

[Returned]

Superdog, you are a far braver soul than I am. 

If there is one thing my MLCer lives in mortal terror of is the truth...he expects everyone to not hurt his feelings by not pointing out when he lies or avoids responsibility for his children.

From what I have been told he has lied to OW extensively...and he continues to do so. Some people have told me a few of the stories he has told her. The autobiography, accomplishments, and history of our relationship is largely fictional. He hasn't told her that he got the money to buy his red car by threatening me. Not to mention where he spends his time and his money these days.

It is not my job to point out to her the truth. I admit that simple human decency would normally require me to tell her. However since she participated in destroying my family I feel that it is not my responsibility. You would think that since he lied to me and cheated on me with her guidance, she would realize he would  also be capable of lying to her and cheating on her.

Word is that he is planning on dumping her once he secures another OW with a home and adequate financial assets to support him.

Karma indeed.

[SSG]

 You would think that since he lied to me and cheated on me with her guidance, she would realize he would  also lie to her and cheat on her.

Karma indeed.

And I quote from their secret FB messages:

OW: I am afraid you will lie to me like you did to W
H: No, no, that won't happen.  It is different with you"
OW: Wish I could believe that, it scares me.

Which brings me to a webpage I found last year...funny as all hell, to those of us with an OW in the picture. It is a mirror image of what I just put from H and OW.

http://www.heartless-b!tc#es.com/rants/manipulator/special.shtml