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#100: August 26, 2013, 02:39:09 PM
That's so true I wish I could speed up the process.

I have questions on my thread.

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3881.msg239986#msg239986
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#101: August 27, 2013, 04:33:06 AM
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#102: August 31, 2013, 07:13:03 PM
My H has been living with OW since June 2013, but was seeing ow for about 1.5 yrs previous. How do I pave the way when he states this house never felt like a home. Lived here 38yrs he also grew in this house. He very seldom comes here. As ha is writing his grown dtrs out of his life. And they won't talk to him. Also when they have this awakening how do you know if its the alienator that they want to be with?  OW is 31 and H is 59 .

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3861.msg241231;topicseen#new

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#103: August 31, 2013, 08:17:11 PM
I heard that to. He didn't have a say. The house was never his. I didn't care what he wanted. Funny it really feels good to go shopping and not care what color he likes, or thinks it doesn't look good. Who cares it's my house now. He has his own and gets to do as the OW wants now. I can't believe how whipped he is. I think she is lazier than him and that's hard to believe.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#104: August 31, 2013, 08:23:49 PM
Disneyme and anyone else that is going to reply to Dreamer, please do so on her thread. The link is in her post. Thank you.

Also, please be so kind to post the reply you've post here on Dreamer's thread so that I can remove your reply.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#105: September 01, 2013, 12:54:18 PM
Posted something on my thead. Feeling horrible.

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3753.0

answered on yr thread.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#106: September 03, 2013, 12:11:37 PM
NEW QUESTION (Also on my thread)

Can anyone answer a question about Escape and Avoid?

Specifically, is E & A the same as Replay?  Or is it a different part, or start of replay?  Not sure when I read through the documentation. 

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#107: September 03, 2013, 12:34:32 PM
Panda

I have answered on your thread.

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#108: September 03, 2013, 03:28:55 PM
I got an email post today from Rejoice ministries. Is there a way to repost it here? Are we allowed to do that?
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Started seeing massive change over the summer 2012
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Home now. March 2014
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#109: September 03, 2013, 07:51:51 PM
Yes. Just copy the URL of the page or copy paste the parts you want to your thread.
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