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#160: October 10, 2013, 01:11:23 PM
I had a quick "strategic" question. H wants to use the lawnmower my Mom bought and I said no, its not mine to loan. He monstered that HE bought it and he wants to see the cancelled check from the purchase. I was with my Mom when she bought it, but we can't find the check. Do I just ignore H? Do I ask HIM to prove HE bought it? Do I just laugh and shake my head? This is the first "property" dispute that we've had.We are at the 18 month mark since BD and 14 months since he moved out. Headed into the storm I think.


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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#161: October 12, 2013, 08:29:56 PM
I've got a small dilemma that is sort of MLC related which I would like some input on please.

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#162: October 13, 2013, 01:28:51 PM
Quote from: Slow Fade on October 10, 2013, 01:11:23 PM
I had a quick "strategic" question. H wants to use the lawnmower my Mom bought and I said no, its not mine to loan. He monstered that HE bought it and he wants to see the cancelled check from the purchase. I was with my Mom when she bought it, but we can't find the check. Do I just ignore H? Do I ask HIM to prove HE bought it? Do I just laugh and shake my head? This is the first "property" dispute that we've had.We are at the 18 month mark since BD and 14 months since he moved out. Headed into the storm I think.


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if its not yours then he is asking the wrong person. who owns the lawn mower? If its your mums tell him to go and ask your mum. if its yours why would you say its not? dont let the use of a lawnmower become a major issue between you. I think the unconditional's of grace and forgiveness and love are more important.

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#163: October 13, 2013, 02:00:15 PM
Could use some insight about severe depression or bipolar disorder in MLCer.  I'm concerned about missing H.

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#164: October 14, 2013, 05:20:19 PM
can someone give me some quick support - only have about 30 minutes to save me from myself!

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#165: October 14, 2013, 05:22:47 PM
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#166: October 15, 2013, 09:33:31 PM
Needs to spill my heart out to a good listener, someone who wont say anything but just listen. I need to find a counselor...   I'm losing it...........
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#167: October 16, 2013, 05:03:29 AM
talk to me.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#168: October 17, 2013, 02:09:55 PM
hi sorry mentors

i tried to create a new thread but dont think it worked please can someone help need some advice if possible thanks x
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#169: October 17, 2013, 02:23:26 PM
Think you need to try again, click "new topic", write a title for the thread, a post and it should work.  :)
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