[nah]

attaching

[confused_but_trying]

For many people outside of the MLC world, 1-2 years is too long, let alone 14 years. It is all a matter of perspective. All I know is this, there are no absolutes in this life. Many people say that if someone cheated on them, they would dump them in a second. Well, we have that going on in our situations and many of us haven't, the reason is, you never know what you will do, until you are faced with that dilemma. We can conjecture all we want to, but it is only when reality steps in, do we have to make that difficult decision.

Quoted for truth.  In fact, I have found that it's often the people that are most verbal about something that wind up back peddling when the situation actually manifests.  Almost like they are trying to convince themselves more than anyone else.

[Strongwind]

wow!! 14 years and he leaves her because she want's a commitment? When there is children involved there is always contact I guess. H and I don't have children together and he is quite a bit younger than me. The chances are slim for my marriage.. My mom told me yesterday that H is never coming back and, even though I know she is probably right, it hurt so much. Why? I sometimes feel that hope helps us go on.... So so sad. Life is so short, I'm not sure it's worth standing past 2 years?  Blessings  SW 

[Anjae]

My mom told me yesterday that H is never coming back and, even though I know she is probably right, it hurt so much. Why? I sometimes feel that hope helps us go on.... So so sad. Life is so short, I'm not sure it's worth standing past 2 years? 

Hope does help us to go on. Only you can decide if it worth to still stand after 2 years. As you know 2 years is not that long in MLC lenght.

Anyway, you do not have do decide anything right now, do you?

[ember]

14 years!!!! I wonder what made her Dad leave the OW. He sounds like he could be a MLCer so did he finally wake up or was it the pressure from the OW to commit? Very interesting. Thanks for posting.

[HopeFaithLove]

Thanks for sharing Sada  and heroIam. It is good to hear return stories. Good luck on the road to reconciliation.

[Junior 1975]

This gives me some hope.

[Thunder]

Nice story trouble.  Thanks for sharing.

[hawk]

ls it true it's mostly husbands if any that sometimes come back ?

[Thunder]

hawk, it may just appear like that but I think it's more men who do the leaving.
I'm sure women come back too.