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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: No Contact
#30: November 10, 2013, 11:24:22 AM
bump

Full moon is on it's way folks..expect anything..get strong for the holidays!
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#31: November 12, 2013, 04:23:05 PM
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#32: November 19, 2013, 04:44:32 PM
Self healing-

I have a magnet on my refrigerator.

The part not in parenthesis is the original wording the part in parenthesis I have added as it applied in the MLC situation I dealt with::

Rules to Remember

1 Respect yourself- and others ( Be a mirror. Shown respect? Return respect..
Shown disrespect? Protect yourself by any means)

2, Think before you speak ( Remember whatever you say they may not remember at all, but if they do? Chances are they will apply thier own spin)

3 Listen to one another ( No monsters please-walk away, hang up, do not answer emails, texts, go NC if necessary)

4 Smile first ( Makes everyone wonder what you are up too)

5 Be happy with what you have ( Might be tough for some but there is always something to be grateful or thankful for no matter how small)

6 Say please and thank you ( always)

7 Try and do your best ( Your best may be doing nothing)

8 Be patient, kind, and forgiving ( Refer to the first part of rule one; do not be doormat either)

9 Think good thoughts ( Negative self talk will undermine your peace of mind)

10 Never give up (Letting go is not giving up)
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#33: November 24, 2013, 07:53:08 PM
Thanksgiving is coming...try to stay sane. ((((Hugs))))
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#34: November 24, 2013, 09:21:58 PM
Trying Init! Congrats on the job!

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Re: No Contact
#35: November 26, 2013, 05:59:36 PM
BUMP!!!!
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#36: November 27, 2013, 09:10:50 AM
Last stop to get off the Crazy Train!!

Try today!! tomorrow don't answer the phone or anything else.

Have a peaceful loving grateful SANE Thanksgiving!
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#37: November 27, 2013, 02:59:40 PM
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#38: December 22, 2013, 10:07:50 AM
I'm going to try to bump this thread for the next three days...Christmas is coming please if you haven't done this yet..try NC for a couple of days

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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: No Contact
#39: December 23, 2013, 12:33:11 PM
BUMP
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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