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#50: October 21, 2013, 12:05:23 AM
Well I got fired...then I quit....
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Re: Something for Men II
#51: October 21, 2013, 08:35:16 PM
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Re: Something for Men II
#52: October 22, 2013, 01:54:26 AM
Interesting...seems to add up.

 Too bad more of them don't do some research to understand THEMSELVES but oh I forgot! See?.... my brain isn't processing this RIGHT! Must have hit a crazy bump somewhere.

There's NOTHING wrong with them so why would they look?
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#53: October 22, 2013, 05:57:05 AM
guess my point is that some of these disasters have a deeper meaning..its not about rights or empowerment and maybe they shouldn't be applauded by popular culture the media etc..
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Re: Something for Men II
#54: October 22, 2013, 07:09:03 PM
Of course it shouldn't.

 Divorces and destruction of marriages and families are just that..nothing more.There's no funeral given no acknowledgement of the the way things went. There's " no fault" divorce.

Get a car, get a tattoo, get some bimbo or amoral man to comfort you

THAT's the answer.

Meanwhile NO ONE CONSIDERS THE KIDS!
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#55: October 22, 2013, 08:04:08 PM
lol..you are so right..I scan  divorce sites looking for fodder for the blog...its amazing..all the how divorce is  wonderful and empowering..great for everyone......what is really sickening..is all the dating gym botox flirting how to get married again and have a perfect repeat wedding and marriage advice..
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Re: Something for Men II
#56: October 22, 2013, 08:14:48 PM
Yep mean while the kids deal with the fall out.

You are all really good Dads here. I've never seen so many men genuinely CARE about their kids...

You have NO idea what that means to me!

NO OW's for you either! Keep the kids out of it!!
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#57: October 22, 2013, 08:34:34 PM
basic math I learned   husband + wife + children = family....when someone changes the equation..subtracts the husband and wife it becomes : kids= family
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Re: Something for Men II
#58: October 22, 2013, 08:37:18 PM
Yep and my kids are with him due to his abuse of me kicking me out and assaulting me.
So now:

Kids=him

And I'm not going back..
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#59: October 22, 2013, 09:00:53 PM
http://www.midlifebachelor.com/articles/whentosendflowers1.html

Here we go... who wants to buy into this $h!te?
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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