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Discussion Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#130: April 11, 2014, 10:39:55 AM
How do you change the title of your thread?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#131: April 11, 2014, 11:57:45 AM
I think that the recommendation is that you stick with your current title till 150posts but if you really want to change it then what can be done is to start a new topic and either I or one of the other mentor/ moderators will merge your existing topic with the new one and ensuring the new title.
However - I suggest you wait and see what Old Pilot says = he is the master craftsman of threads..
Changing your thread title could cause confusion as many people on here use notification of thread rather than user.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#132: April 11, 2014, 11:59:30 AM
How do you change the title of your thread?

Tell me the new  title or PM it to me and I will change it for you
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#133: April 11, 2014, 07:19:11 PM
Could use some help.  Just found out H is moving out and introducing family to ow. 


http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4352.0


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« Last Edit: April 13, 2014, 03:59:15 PM by Anjae »
The very purpose of our life is happiness, which is sustained by hope. We have no guarantee about the future, but we exist in the hope of something better. Hope means keeping going, thinking, ‘I can do this.’ It brings inner strength, self-confidence, the ability to do what you do honestly, truthfully and transparently.  The Dalai Lama

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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#134: April 12, 2014, 07:44:02 AM
Sorry to keep posting here, but kids are in meltdown since meeting ow.  Should I show this site to SD27?  She's really angry but mature enough to understand.

Thanks again!
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The very purpose of our life is happiness, which is sustained by hope. We have no guarantee about the future, but we exist in the hope of something better. Hope means keeping going, thinking, ‘I can do this.’ It brings inner strength, self-confidence, the ability to do what you do honestly, truthfully and transparently.  The Dalai Lama

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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#135: April 12, 2014, 10:22:11 AM
Sorry to keep posting here, but kids are in meltdown since meeting ow.  Should I show this site to SD27?  She's really angry but mature enough to understand.

Thanks again!

Maybe that would not be good idea. You never know that Your SD will not share that with father ?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#136: April 13, 2014, 06:20:37 AM
Hi,

Just needing some advice re: contact with in-laws:

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4481.110

Thanks for your support,
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#137: April 14, 2014, 09:21:25 PM
Hoping for some insight...after about 1 yr of h abandoning his kids and moving into OW's and being angry towards the children, I have noticed the last month that he is really trying to be a better father! I know he is very much into replay and NO WAY near being done but is it normal for them to want to be a good father again during replay? Just don't want to be disappointed for my kids AGAIN
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#138: April 14, 2014, 09:24:52 PM
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#139: April 15, 2014, 03:22:31 PM
Could use some support.  H moved out today while I was at work.  And it's really rainy right now. :'(

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4352.0
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« Last Edit: April 15, 2014, 03:27:04 PM by Anjae »
The very purpose of our life is happiness, which is sustained by hope. We have no guarantee about the future, but we exist in the hope of something better. Hope means keeping going, thinking, ‘I can do this.’ It brings inner strength, self-confidence, the ability to do what you do honestly, truthfully and transparently.  The Dalai Lama

 

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