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#60: January 02, 2014, 07:02:03 AM
Can I get some advice on my thread, please!

"Willing to work through it"

Thanks

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4396.30

I think this is my thread... Lol
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« Last Edit: January 03, 2014, 01:45:38 AM by OldPilot »
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#61: January 02, 2014, 12:14:04 PM
hello (former how do i cope here )

please can someone lock my old thread and let people know i have changed my name to i will and can cope my new thread is called i will be rising from the ground like a ...skyscraper

thank you . :)

Edit -Locked - You can add it to your signature too. - Old Pilot
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#62: January 03, 2014, 01:15:39 AM
This is for the moderators rather than mentors, I suppose but can someone please make the discussion thread "links and articles for us all to share" a sticky.
I can't find the sticky tag anywhere and there are so many useful links that other LBSers come up with. It would be good to build this up especially for newbies or early LBSers like myself. 
The link is http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3859.msg281964#new
 It also helps those of us find other LBsers that perhaps we haven't come across.

Many thanks


Edit - I really think there are too many stickies now. I can add it to your signature or put a link in one of the other posts that are already stickied - OldPilot
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« Last Edit: January 03, 2014, 01:44:24 AM by OldPilot »
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#63: January 04, 2014, 09:19:21 AM
Sorry to be a pest by posting in here. Ive been going batty the last couple days and posted a few things on my thread. I just need some thoughts and feedback.
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4439.0;all
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#64: January 07, 2014, 10:46:12 PM
Hi,

This is the link to my thread
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4203.0
i would really like that someone takes a look at my sitch. I was in early reconnection stage (I thought). H broke off with OW, moved in again but is completely dishonest about his contact OW. H chases her and she does not want anymore for now
H does not know I know all this

Thanks
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#65: January 09, 2014, 06:53:57 PM
What's an easy way to find your thread?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#66: January 09, 2014, 07:13:54 PM
Quote from: I reckon so on January 09, 2014, 06:53:57 PM
What's an easy way to find your thread?

Click on your own user name, and under Profile Info on the left, click on Show Posts.  It will show all of the posts you've posted on listed from most recent.  You can also click on "notify" for any thread (on the same menu as the reply button at the top and bottom of each thread), to have responses emailed to you that you can click to get directly to from your email program, or you can bookmark your thread in your browser.

Edit - Also after you show all your posts you can then hit topics and find all the threads of a person. - OldPilot
Edit - Thank you for adding that, I'd never noticed it!  - RT2
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« Last Edit: January 10, 2014, 07:16:54 AM by Ready2Transform »
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#67: January 13, 2014, 07:46:17 PM
Hi All,

I could really use some advice on my thread; I think I might have really screwed up!

The thread is titled "she might leave you, but you'll never leave her"

Sorry I don't know how to link my thread on my iPad.

Thanks

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4437.msg285004#msg285004

Answered on your thread - R2T
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« Last Edit: January 13, 2014, 08:42:58 PM by Ready2Transform »
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Wants to live like roommates - November 2013
I moved out - April 2015
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#68: January 14, 2014, 12:29:25 AM
Hi all,  I am hoping that someone might be able to help me attach my previous threads to my current one.  I think I know how to do it now but I can't edit it.

Current thread:
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4477

Previous thread
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3380.0

Many thanks  ;D
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#69: January 14, 2014, 09:04:32 AM
Would really like to hear some thoughts on how to handle H bringing OW into my house while I am traveling  >:(

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4437.80
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I moved out - April 2015
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