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#140: September 18, 2011, 01:24:51 PM
Sorry OP, would you change the poll so there is no end date? I believe I by mistake entered an one-day poll. Thank you, OP.
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#141: September 18, 2011, 02:46:41 PM
Quote from: Standing in Patience on September 18, 2011, 01:24:51 PM
Sorry OP, would you change the poll so there is no end date? I believe I by mistake entered an one-day poll. Thank you, OP.

Always testing me, I didn't know I could do that but you should also be able to edit your posts for 90 mins.
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#142: September 18, 2011, 03:21:29 PM
LIW, sorry I did't have an opportunity to add another choice. If I could, I would have added "None of the above - situation is unique".

Aren't they all! :)
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#143: September 19, 2011, 05:40:40 AM
I can only answer regarding the final break-up.  H initiated it and took steps to insure she could not contact him again. 

I do know she "broke up" on the day I discovered the affair.  She was with H when he discovered that I discovered the affair.  She was terrified I would contact her or her husband.  I'm certain she used this to emotionally manipulate H.  I must admit to some evil pleasure knowing that she was concerned about my knowledge and how I would use it.  That break up didn't last.  I don't know who initiated it the second time H told me it was over.  I think it was H based upon things he has since told me.  I think OW emotionally manipulated H and pestered him a lot at that time.  HB "saw" that, and I saw some evidence of her contacting H shortly after H told me it was done the second time.  (she had the nerve to comment on some family vacation photos on H's facebook)  I wasn't snooping.  It was right there for me to see.  I ignored this at that time as that was what I was told to do, and what I decided was the right course. 
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#144: September 19, 2011, 06:03:17 AM
My H dumped her about four times so far. She is still calling daily, trying to patch things up. ::) They're both sick
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#145: September 19, 2011, 07:35:02 AM
Once he discovered she had been doing nothing but lying to him about just about everything he slammed the door on her by getting her arrested for property she had stolen; so I think the rose colored glasses came off.
He is now of the mind that it's harder to find "honest women" which is all I have been throughout this nightmare so he finds a great deal  of value in that.

After discussing my weakness due to not being able to discuss music with him on a level anymore complicated than I either like or don't like a particuler song . I said to him:

 "Honey you know I'm sure there are women out there that could discuss the more complicated aspects of music with you...would you like to go look for one?" He quickly replied "NO WAY.. I'm perfectly happy with where I am now!" We both laughed pretty hard.
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#146: September 19, 2011, 08:07:45 AM
I hope my H remembers that also..that I'm the honest one. He recently has found out xOW may not be what she protrayed. He also told me last week that he is finding out that I'm the best person for him and there isn't much out there. Then the next day he took off again to go bar-hopping and probably never remembers saying it. ::)
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#147: September 24, 2011, 03:45:53 PM
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Update: YAY, Haley!  You’ve had over 9,000 visits to your webpage.  I should probably give credit to our readers from www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com, for sending you over the top yesterday!
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#148: September 24, 2011, 08:00:26 PM
Ready, I love your suggestion list.
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Re: The affair/OM/OW III
#149: September 25, 2011, 09:44:11 PM
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