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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#40: December 04, 2013, 04:44:57 AM
Love the bag of crap, In It!  ;D

I have decided that, since our finances are still tied together, H's Christmas present will build on his birthday present (a credit card bill for sexy lingerie he will never see). Christmas will be a bill for one of the local sex shops. Its a bit perverse, but I like the idea of making him think about what I might be doing.  :D
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#41: December 04, 2013, 06:35:26 AM
Hm, in my country of origin Father Christmas is accompanied by Servant Rupert with the wip. Only good kids should get presents, bad kids (are threatedned) to get the whip....  ;D

That said, just looked that one up on internet, and noticed this Servant Rupert might be a symbol for the dark side of people, the shadow...argh... does that mean did Father Christmas also have a MLC????
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#42: December 04, 2013, 06:38:55 AM
Ever heard of Krumpas..for misbehaved kids... ( I think that's how it's spelled)
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#43: December 04, 2013, 06:39:51 AM
A mirror - in the vague hope they might look deeply into it... on second thoughts, they will probably just admire their new look!  Scrap that  ;) 

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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#44: December 04, 2013, 06:54:32 AM
I wish I could by rock bottom for my W. Because of her MLC i will not be able to by the kids nearly what I would like too.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#45: December 04, 2013, 07:25:24 AM
SPEND TIME with the kids..don't BUY them this year..do what you can..don't overextend yourself.

Take them places, hold them, read a Christmas book to them.. start a tradition.
The "I Spy Christmas Book" is a GREAT one to do together and find things within the gorgeous photos. Provide peace and quiet time. For the younger ones.

The older one's? Write a letter to them not a text or email. Tell them how proud you are of them and how much you love them. LOTS OF HUGS!!!
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#46: December 04, 2013, 07:30:50 AM
For those of you in the UK, there are only 3 left, and going for 5 pounds.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/B-V-Leisure-123456-Mid-Life-Crisis/dp/B0006D397C

Imagine playing this with your spouse.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#47: December 04, 2013, 09:06:44 AM
Quote from: Snowdrop on December 04, 2013, 07:30:50 AM
For those of you in the UK, there are only 3 left, and going for 5 pounds.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/B-V-Leisure-123456-Mid-Life-Crisis/dp/B0006D397C

Imagine playing this with your spouse.


;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

I love this description:
To outwit them you might declare a midlife crisis in which you would try to free yourself from the bonds of money, marriage and reason.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#48: December 04, 2013, 09:32:03 AM
A magic 8 ball. For all those important- decisions making- reality bites- moments  ::)
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#49: December 04, 2013, 09:46:37 AM
Quote from: Snowdrop on December 04, 2013, 07:30:50 AM
For those of you in the UK, there are only 3 left, and going for 5 pounds.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/B-V-Leisure-123456-Mid-Life-Crisis/dp/B0006D397C

Imagine playing this with your spouse.

Ha - there is one review: 'as seasoned board game players (must have accumilated about 25 new sets by now) at christmas we didnt like this one, seemed like 20 year old ex shop stock, with dust on it?! just not very fun at all, got retired to the attic after 5 mins '

Is it just me finding some double meanings in that review :) Especially 'just not very fun at all'!
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