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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#60: December 17, 2013, 08:28:28 PM
By H will be given the gift of being ignored.
He hates that!!!!
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#61: December 17, 2013, 09:09:11 PM
my wish for H would be.....a court order for child support ;D ;D

A huge mirror so he can see how ridiculous he looks, and a deposit book fornour account ;D ;D

I can see him now on Christmas morning with his expensive gift giving, and his face ::) as he opens his presents from OW, bought with the money he should be sending for child support.

sadly, we are so used to it now, we dont even react to any of it.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#62: December 17, 2013, 09:32:36 PM
a visit from the Ghost of Christmas Future.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#63: December 18, 2013, 07:54:22 AM
Quote from: misdiz on December 17, 2013, 08:04:33 PM
a skunk!

My H would rather some skunk and sell it on ::)
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#64: December 18, 2013, 08:15:55 AM
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#65: December 18, 2013, 08:30:23 AM
Not many gift ideas here for the female MLCers...

My W desperately needs a reality check and some truth serum. Since I can't buy that at a store then I guess I am left with asking Santa to please bring my W In It with a sack full of truth bricks.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#66: December 18, 2013, 08:55:21 AM
A Barbie Dream house, a miniature  red Ferrari, a phony platinum Visa, and a Ken or Barbie doll to live out their fantasy life with.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#67: December 18, 2013, 09:02:17 AM
Here's what I want to give, though I know I probly shouldn't feed the Monster...

Wife has a special collection of Nutcrackers collected through childhood. She puts them on the mantle every year.

Well I found the perfect one for her to remember this year by. It's a Surfer Nutcracker holding a board. Just happens that surfing is her new boyfriends passion.

Maybe I'll just give it to D3 and D4.  That way they can want to put their special first Nutcracker from Daddy on the Mantle every Christmas with Mommies childhood memories.
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Christmas Gift for MLCer?
#68: December 18, 2013, 09:49:00 AM
Wondering what everyone thought about whether or not it is a good idea to purchase a Christmas Gift for an MLCer who has left the family home? What about purchasing a gift for a child to give to their MLCer (small child)?

Edit - Merged with similar thread. - Oldpilot
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Re: Christmas presents for MLCers - Yes or No?
#69: December 18, 2013, 10:25:11 AM
Gabby,
 I just went out today and decided to get H a gift- it's a sentimental thing that references a time when we were happier.

It's excerpts from the children's book "I like you" If you havent read it, DO! It is sooo appropriate for ANYONE in your life you care about. He hand I heard it for the first time at a friend's wedding, and he commented how much he liked it. So, I picked out the phrases that are perfect for what we are going through and I did a "subway art" type of thing on MS Word. I framed it and wrapped it.

My daughter made him something, too, and I think it is vital that they have as much of a relationship still, as possible. So, he will not be invited on Christmas, but we will do a gift exchange on the 23rd or the morning of the 24th.

ps- he wants to come on Christmas, but I think he needs to feel that deep loneliness during his journey= tough love
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